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  1. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey! I'm sorry to bother anyone here, because this might seem like a meaningless problem. I'm just finishing up my first semester in college, and I thought that I instantly clicked with my roommates (one ESTP/ESFP and one ISTP). However, as I've spent more time with them, I constantly feel...
  2. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm living in a small on-campus suite with three other guys. Me (ISTJ) and an ENTP have our own rooms, and the ISFJ and INFP share a room. The problem is that the INFP plays online games while talking to his friends late into the night and the ISFJ just wants to sleep. The INFP usually gets off...
  3. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi everyone, I have a roommate dilemma. A new girl recently (in the middle of January) replaced my old roommate and has been causing a lot of problems, but I'm not sure how to handle them. I find that I can't stand up for myself without a great deal of anxiety. I don't want to hurt her feelings...
  4. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm a freshman in college and was assigned random roommates as my college requires. One of my roommates is an INFJ and we get along great. We consider each other our best friends here. The other roommate is very clearly an INFP (I could see an argument for ISFP, but I'm fairly certain...
  5. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi everyone! Basically I am here wondering if other INFJs feel this way to a certain extent. I have a really hard time using my energy to support people sometimes because I feel that their problems are very trivial. Don't get me wrong, I feel very empathetic and feel that they are hurting and...
  6. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello humans. In a couple of months I'm going to move back to Toronto, and I want to find an ENFP roommate. I think its the only type I can probably live with. But if I make an ad, what would ENFP's want in return? Please share your roommate experiences, good and bad. (Edit, if your in...
  7. Education & Career Talk
    These questions are for those who have ever lived with roommates in any AmeriCorps program: I've been accepted into AmeriCorps Hoopa TCCC program: it's a residential program similar to the AmeriCorps NCCC program, but it's located on Hoopa Indian Native American Reservation in Northern...
  8. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    A blog would probably be more appropriate place to write about this, but I'm just dying with curiosity to know what comments may be made in a forum. Now, I know all about the rule of "don't ever date your roommate," and I've been doing pretty well of fighting the desire to be not interested, up...
  9. Myers Briggs Forum
    A blog would probably be more appropriate place to write about this, but I'm just dying with curiosity to know what comments may be made in a forum. Now, I know all about the rule of "don't ever date your roommate," and I've been doing pretty well of fighting the desire to be not interested, up...
  10. Intro
    So I'm a female INFJ. I've been dating an ENFJ for over two years, so I know a good bit about how INFJ/ENFJ relationships work. Also, apparently INFJs have a strong depressive tendency. Can anyone confirm this? I struggle with serious depression and would love any insight on how INFJs can...
  11. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hey fellow ENTP's. I'm looking for your perspective on living situations. I swore when I was younger I'd never live alone but by some interesting circumstances I have found myself living by myself for the past couple of years. On one hand I really love the freedom I get and I never find myself...
  12. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hello, I am an INFJ, and my college roommate is an ENFJ. We recently- as in today- took the Briggs Myers test and discovered our personality typed. It turned out very accurate for us, and other members of our friend group. So, as a psychology major I of course wanted to go deeper into it and...
  13. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    My roommates and myself were all friends before living together. I'm an ENFJ/ENFP, and my roommates are INTP, ESFJ, and ISFP. We have been having a lot of issues with our ISFP roommate. She is extremely passive-aggressive, uncompromising, and generally within her own world. We have tried to be...
  14. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hello~~~~ ISFJ's!! I NEED YOUR HELP!! I am an INTP moving in with an ISFJ. I really need you guys to help me to not make this ISFJ mad and hate me! He is like the nicest guy in the world. He would laugh at the stupidest joke just so the other person wouldn't feel bad, which is like a super...
  15. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    This post ended up being much, much longer than I anticipated. If you have some insight into dealing with incompatible types, skip from the second paragraph to the last paragraph. If you’re a glutton for reading about unreasonable people, like me, read on. Some backstory: My INTJ girlfriend is...
  16. Myers Briggs Forum
    Ladies! How do you weed out the "bad eggs"? And how many roommates is too many?? Helloooo lady friends... I am currently working on two articles for a men's magazine (targeting ages 18-45) and they require a female point of view. If you would like to contribute your input I would be much...
  17. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi guys :) Another article I'm writing for a local Colorado magazine is about men (ages 18-45) who prefer to live with multiple roommates. If you would like to contribute to my article and help me understand better the "frat" life style, I would really appreciate it! Please include your first...
  18. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi guys :) Another article I'm writing for a local Colorado magazine is about men (ages 18-45) who prefer to live with multiple roommates. If you would like to contribute to my article and help me understand better the "frat" life style, I would really appreciate it! Please include your first...
  19. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Help! I'm about to enter into an extremely uncomfortable dialogue with my ISTJ/Sagittarius roommate. We've lived together for about 2 and a half years and things have been pretty good for the first 2. That is until she got into a steady relationship with a married man about 6 or 7 months ago...
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