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  1. Have I been Gaslighted? Why is he so cruel to me, even after we broke up.

    Advice Center
    I want to believe he is a good person and that he isn't toxic. There was a time when he did treat me right. When he was encouraging. A time when he had the ability to lift my spirits and I believed that I can do anything. He was my muse. He was my love. He was my best friend. But as the...
  2. [INFJ] Rude on purpose in an attempt to shorten anxiety provoking social interactions?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi, I'm new here. I'm an INFJ and 4w5. I've never used a site like this before so I'm sorry if I do some things wrong. I have a coping mechanism that I have used for most of my life that I am pretty ashamed of. I tend to be rude on purpose in social situations when I am getting overwhelmed with...
  3. [INFP] I need help about my friend... Please!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I have an INTP (It's according to test. I'm not sure if she is I or E. Probably E though.) friend at school. We met in sophomore year because I've changed my class and all my other friends were in the other class. Now I'm starting my senior year tomorrow. She is so close to me even though I'm...
  4. Using Anxiety As An Excuse

    General Psychology
    My boyfriend and I share a house with another couple, who have both said that they have anxiety. And whilst I do believe anxiety and depression are an illness that many people deal with, I have a hard time accepting her reason of having anxiety for the way she speaks and her behaviour. She...
  5. [INTP] When dating, is mentioning mbti "in bad taste"?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I came across someone with this kind of opinion recently, and I don't get it, what is distasteful about it? When are people ever going to realize that mbti is not dogma, it's a tool. That's the only explanation that I can come to: people don't know how to comprehend it beyond it being a label...
  6. [ESTP] UGH, those INTJs...(sometimes)..

    ESTP Forum - The Doers
    SO, my question here is...How do you guys generally feel about INTJs? Like them? Tolerate them? Can't stand em? I know 2 INTJs, one is a dear friend and the other is my brother's girlfriend. The first friend I spoke of, I have zero problems with and talking and hanging out with her is the...
  7. [INFJ] INFJ/ISTJ/INTP Trio Problems

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi, I'm new here and I came onto this forum because I've seen people give some great advice here. And I need advice. Here goes. A month ago, I discovered the MBTI and was so thrilled at the accuracy of the results that I shared it with two of my close friends, since the three of us have an...
  8. [INTJ] Do you like other INTJs?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    First of all, I'm Italian so forgive me for eventual grammar or spelling mistakes. My question is this: Do you like others INTJs? Because in the real life I don't know any INTJ, the only interactions that I have are on the internet, and I only met rude and arrogant people... I now that INTJs...
  9. [ISTJ] ISTJs: "Honest, or just plain rude?" and perpetuating other negative stereotypes.

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    ISTJs: "Honest, or just plain rude?" and perpetuating other negative stereotypes. Hello ISTJs, I was browsing the forums and I came across a post in another personality section where a user confronted his own type about perpetuating their negative stereotypes. I can't remember what the post...
  10. Thinkers; do feelers ever get on your nerves?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I have a good friendship with a few feelers. But sometimes, certain ones drive me up a wall. Sometimes they just berate me with statements such as; You just don't feel as deeply as I feel. You don't understand how this feels. I'm just too emotionally deep for you and the rest of the world. At...
  11. Are you rude to ugly people?

    Member Polls
    I've noticed a lot of people aren't nice to ugly people like they're an abomination to the human race (which technecially by the laws of evolution and natural selection we are) but are you rude to ugly people?
  12. [ENTJ] I see ENTJ men as jerks and they sew me as overemotional. Can we ever get along?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    i asked this on the.infj forum, but wanted to get your entj thougjts. There seems to be a pattern. I fall for a confidant, dominate male who seems sweet at first, but then does things that irk me. My biggest pet peeve is not getting a response to my email or text. Every guy i know who does this...
  13. [INFJ] Why do ENTJ men make my overemotional, sensitive side come out!?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    There seems to be a pattern. I fall for a confidant, dominate male who seems sweet at first, but then does things that irk me. My biggest pet peeve is not getting a response to my email or text. Every guy i know who does this all the time is an ENTJ. When i think its because they dont value me...
  14. [Enneagram Type 5] Being an ass because you feel it defines you?

    Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    I have a feeling this would be more of a problem to 5w4s than to 5w6s but we'll see what kind of responses show up on this topic. Every now and again I get stuck in this cycle where I start feeling lonely because I'm not getting noticed enough but I don't really want to spend extra time with...
  15. [INTJ] Destroying conversations

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hey guys. I've had this problem for years now and I'd like to know if it's a common thing to INTJ's. I often find myself in nice conversations with people and letting my thoughts be known and all that, untill suddenly I go through some weird thought processes that end up insulting people badly...
  16. [ENTP] Help me ENTPs!!!!!!!!

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I am an INFJ and in my past I met an ENTP who was not rude, but less sensitive to the feelings of others. He was kind of sweet to me, of course, maybe because he knew I was kind of shy? I have no clue why, to be honest. But anyways, he was always kind of nice. He would sometimes give me advice...