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  1. [ENTP] My Life Bible. Feeling lost? Maybe you'll find something useful here. Or maybe not.

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello everyone, Brace yourselves. Huge message is coming. If you are an ENTP and you are feeling lost, please give this message a shot. I may come off a bit harsh, however I am always open to criticism. I am an enneagram 8 ENTP, so although I identify a lot with the ENTP description, some...
  2. Breaking rules angers you?

    Hello fellow ENFJs, I was wondering am I the only who gets really angry when someone breaks the rules. Situation 1: Professor at my college tries to skip the line to the parking but I stick my car infront of his so that he doesnt get infront of me. Situation 2: Someone talks really loud in a...
  3. Pressuring SJ's to Break Rules

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    In a past relationship in high school, I pushed my xSFJ boyfriend to question rules and to attempt to re-negotiate them if they seemed unfair. I just wanted him to talk to his parents more. We regularly had explosive fights, but it wasn't until the end of the relationship that he revealed just...
  4. Is it just me, or is society a pointless hellhole run by sjs?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    Maybe that's just where I live. I love informal debating, and anytime I raise a point, my conversation partner's rebuttal is 'because those are the rules.' Is it inaccurate to expect more of them? I think not, but maybe this is just the folly of humankind. Everyone is domineering...
  5. Hello everyone! [ft. a question about my type]

    Hey everyone! I'm new here, feel free to call me Tigris or whatever xD So apparently there's a separate forum for questions about typing so I have a post there instead lol
  6. Accepting an invitation to visit I suggested, to a friend

    Advice Center
    Hi, I said to a friend I'd visit him as soon as I get a new passport, he said you're welcome to visit at these and these dates. Do I need to thank him for the invitation, or is it ok with me saying I'll be over as soon as I can? Cheers, D
  7. [ENFP] An ENFP on Liberty

    ENFP Articles
    A post by @Vishalmisra Whether the reader of this article is an ENFP, or indeed knows an ENFP; they should (theoretically) report a love of individual freedom as characteristic to the ENFP mindset. So what does liberty mean to the ENFP? The ENFP is a strange creature, we are swift to resist...
  8. [ENTJ] Results vs Process

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Which is a better midset to succeed in life - Result Orientation or Process Orientation? Do you believe the end justifies the means even if it requires great risk and rule breaking , or do you think "It's about the journey, not the destination"?
  9. ENFP Rules to Live By...Our Ten Commandments!

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So this thread is intended for ENFP's to share those values of ours that we hold so dearly and don't often show. We tend to ignore traditional rules of society, like not flirting with everyone we see, being on time, cleaning things, not accidentally leaving your kid at the supermarket, blah blah...
  10. How MBTI Types Approach Rules

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I thought this was very accurate and interesting. I did not come up with this. What do you guys make of this? ENTJ: I make the rules. ESTJ: I've written down the rules and made copies for everyone. ESFJ: I've bent over backwards to fulfill all the rules. ENFJ: Rules are great – they help us...
  11. SJ's opinions on rules and traditions

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    SJs are known for being "by the book" and being traditionalists in general. They usually come off to other temperaments as either bossy or stuck up. Seeing other temperaments bashing SJs is not an uncommon sight. However, I don't think I've noticed people asking why do SJs like to stick to the...
  12. [INTJ] Rules of War

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    The result of this morning's rant with myself.
  13. Rules of Engagement Characters

    Guess the type
    What are their types?
  14. [INTP] Rebels with clues?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    It seems to be very INTP-like to have certain rules, procedures, social norms (or even laws) we disagree with and disregard even with bad consequences at stake. What are some personal examples and why do you disregard them?
  15. [ISTP] The Way of Self-Reliance

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    This is from Miyamoto Musashi, arguably the awesomest ISTP there ever was. Written at the end of his life as principles for his students to live by. If you like this, pick up his The "Book of Five Rings." It's bloody awesome. A hint of what's in there...
  16. [INTP] Rules To Keep Relationships In Check

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Do you have any rules you apply to relationships to make them easier to get out of if you need to? Mine include: Never allow other people's possessions to get left in my space. (Exclusions: INTJ friends: their things somehow become my things, also large, comfortable shirts are also mine.)
  17. [INFJ] Guideline for the threads?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I have noticed that there are a ton, and I mean a TON, of threads about relationships, social anxiety, feeling lonely ect. Is there any place where they are supposed to be placed in the INFJ category or is this forum dedicated to the thoughts and insights of all the INFJ's here? I mean, I have...
  18. [INFJ] The INFJ Manifesto

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    What are your personal golden rules? What do you live by? What are are the things you have to force yourself (not) to do in order to flourish? How did they work out for you? Some rules I have that I do manage follow: Tedious careers inherently never pay off, so don't pursue them. Do not buy a...
  19. [ESTJ] TO ANYONE: How can I best persuade my ESTJ PE teacher to revoke a disqualification?

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    I would really, really, really appreciate some help for this situation I'm in. A team of netballers I am responsible for recently got disqualified. In my school the students are divided into houses, and every year the houses play basketball and netball against each other (within school, so it...
  20. CHEATING: What personality types tend to cheat on exams?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    -What types cheat the most and the least? Why? -What do you think about cheating on tests? Have you cheated often?