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  1. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So like I am in my last year at university and I am actually starting to freak out! Everytime I think about my future and having to get a job, or basically anything future related I have a panic attack...... like I'm not ready.... I just wanna chill in my cacoon at home away from akward social...
  2. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I crumble really easily. Most people don't see me cry though, as I've always hidden it. And I've always been incredibly sad because of situations outside my control that make me feel weak- health and family mostly. But I see other people who are enraged by their struggles, or always have 'fight'...
  3. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey dear community! Tomorrow I will have my first day of working after a 17 day vacation and I am scared for it. I am depressed and anxious (I don't know if that's imprortant for this). The thing is, I work in a very toxic environment there, people put so much pressure on you and treat you to...
  4. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hey guys, I'm curious: What are some typical "greatest fears" of an ENFP? For example, some of mine include a fear that I'm not actually a good person deep down, or that I will end up alone. Feel free to share if comfortable! We can all find strength together haha
  5. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I am hemophiliac, enneagram type 4w3, and This world feels too much for me. :( I live in India, the 2nd most populated country of the world. The competition is becoming fierce day by day. People are becoming less compassionate towards each other. The only compassionate people I see around are...
  6. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi guys, I have been away from my ex for about a month now...no texts, no meetings, no social medial, etc. I am not quite ready to date anyone, but have met someone I think there is potential in. I have a few concerns, maybe part of my personality, or maybe they are genuine concerns or even...
  7. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    EDIT: I've just realized this is posted in the wrong place; I'm now waiting to see if it might be taken down, since I intended to post only in the INFP forum! Oops! There's an old man at my church who has been following me around, calling me and leaving lengthy messages, and pressuring me...
  8. Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    Please bare with me, "feelings" make me antsy and I babble and I don't want to leave anything out but this is so important to me. I am a female 8 and I like a male 5. We have been talking online for 6 months and have about 10 thousand messages back and forth. (I must be ok? lol) He's not flirty...
  9. General Psychology
    I was raised in a strict Christian household and was overly protected from the world. TV, music and movies were highly controlled as were my friendships and things I did, so I grew up not knowing cultural references, rather lonely and scared of the world. Now as an adult there are still times...
  10. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I’m an ENFP and I have been in love with another ENFP for over a year now. I met her in college – she lived in the same building as me – and we almost immediately clicked. I see a lot of myself in her…we have the same sense of quirkiness, humor, spontaneous behavior and so on. I think she’s...
  11. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So I've noticed this happening over the past few years, whenever I meet an INFJ and I feel like they're trying to connect with me through Fe. I automatically freeze, close up and put walls up so they can't access my emotions. This happens whenever someone is trying to have a casual conversation...
  12. Myers Briggs Forum
    I was just wondering... which MBTI types do you think are most easy scared? And which are the most fearless? (Note: I don't mean brave, I mean not afraid.) Because I was just reading someones shortlist for horror films and I was trembling with tears in my eyes just looking at the pictures. I...
  13. Intro
    So, I'm terrified to be posting because my Si tells me I'm going to be a.) made fun of b.) completely rejected c.) manipulated et cetera .. But on a quest to further develop as the best possible human I can be, here I am, ready to meet new people, have new experiences, and hopefully learn a few...
  14. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello, I'm a recently identified INFJ. Learning what that means has given me such a positive outlook on life, but enough about that. Before I learned of my strong empathetic tendencies, about two months ago, I came across a true "wolf" in the midst of our "woods". He is someone I met in...
  15. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Well, I thought that this would be pretentious and grandiose enough for a first post, so that's what I'm doing. This post is really just outlining what some of my personal confessions/fears are, and this is posted here because I'm interested to see how many other people of the INTP type (all of...
  16. NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I've never been the kind of person who will walk straight up to you and start a conversation. I'm much too shy for that. My whole life it's been hard for me to make friends, simply because I'm afraid to open myself up to others. My relationships move at a glacial pace. It takes me years to trust...
  17. General Psychology
    I have always considered myself a confident, self-sufficient and strong person. But something happened. I got a new job, and for approximately 18 months I will be living in the UK. My company is providing living arrangements. For the first week, I was living by myself in a two bedroom...
  18. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I tend to some weird things when I am not in the right mind/drunk/on very rare occasion. objectively speaking, it's usually not something very out of the ordinary. sometimes I'll speak of something that really bothers me that I usually don't share with others. Once I got blackout drunk and...
  19. Advice Center
    I'm a bit concerned that this post may be asking too much of the PerC community, or that it is too personal. Oh well, here goes. So I am almost going to finish high school, and it has recently just hit me, like a truck, that I will be an adult soon - no parents, no more rules to follow, no more...
  20. General Psychology
    I realize that our personalities, memories, interests evolve over time; but what do you do when you feel like you've just *stopped* and are unraveling? I'm currently 21 and I've been on this down-ward spiral for for almost 3 years. I am a ghost compared to who I was when I was < 18 yrs. I...
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