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  1. [ISTP] I went down in flames

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hello everyone. I classically f'ed up a social encounter with an ISTP colleague of mine and was hoping for some input if you had a moment to spare. The cliff notes version is a 25-year-old (M) ISTP started working in my department 3 months ago and I developed feelings for him. I (32, M, INTP)...
  2. Selfish and Loving Versions of Each Judging Function

    Cognitive Functions
    Selfish versions of each judging type Te = it's all about making my own plans to make everything work the way I want it to work, using my factual knowledge (Si) and/or ideas (Ni) Ti = it's all about using whatever I can understand on the go to make anything work the way I want it to work...
  3. [ESFJ] immature ESFJs not so 'caregiving'

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    I am an ENFP that has 2 really close ESFJ friends, and few other people i just know to be ESFJs and lots of them vary in personality, some i wouldnt even guess to be an ESFJ one of them i would say upholds the general ESFJ description quite thoroughly, especially with the Fe/selflessness that...
  4. [ISFP] How do you get a young and previously abused ISFP to open up

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Hi. So about a year ago, I met my childhood best friend for the first time in over two decades, and after one thing led to another, I ended up staying with her. She has a 7 year old boy who I'm pretty sure is an ISFP and a 5 year old girl who I'm pretty sure is an ENTP. They go to an extremely...
  5. ESFP Facing Challenges with Selfishness

    General Psychology
    Hi. I know it's pretty uncommon to see an ESFP on the forums, but ever since I started on Myers Briggs, the stereotypes have been getting to me badly. Before Myers Briggs, I could normally talk and be my normal "bold" and "outgoing" self without hesitation. Now I have problems with thinking...
  6. [INFJ] "Hypocrite" for not wanting a kid?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So on Friday I was with a group of people from college and they somehow got on the topic of children and how we planned to raise them. Eventually the topic had involved me, and everyone began to ask me what I planned to do with my kids and whatnot. So I basically told them I don't want to have...
  7. Are Women More Selfish In Bed Than Men?

    Sex and Relationships
    My friend sent me an article he read that argues that women, in general, are not selfish in bed. The author states that though women may seem selfish and demanding on the surface, they merely need men to "warm them up." Men, on the other hand, are visual creatures who need only see the woman...
  8. Assholes and Myers Briggs type

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Which Myers Briggs Types do you commonly associate the word 'asshole' with? Obviously, not every person of that type is going to be an asshole but I find that some personality types are more perceived as one than others. I also think that most of the time, the people who are assholes of a...
  9. Ulterior Motives

    Blog
    Do you ever really analyze yourself deeply and try to figure out 'why' you do or say the things you do? I think each of us would like to believe all of our positive actions are fully genuine. But I don't believe they always are. When you say "sorry" to someone... do you say it and really...
  10. [INFP] Dealing with personal problems...

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi all my favourite people. So I have a problem with an INFP friend that I think you guys might v able to help with, I need your perspectives :) So I have an INFP friend who is suffering with depression and anxiety. A big issue of hers is emotional detachment. She has a best friend who has...
  11. [INFP] Self-abusive personality type?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm a Type 2 & perennially feel taken advantage of, but I need to learn how to be selfish - any advice on how to do so? :unsure: I have had innumerable daydreams of alternative realities, but in real life, I am always putting others first, which is particularly self-abusive in my workplace...
  12. What constitutes a sociopath?

    General Psychology
    http://www.cix.co.uk/~klockstone/teleg.htm The Signs of a Sociopath: How to Spot Mr or Ms Cold and Charming | Suite101.com -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- First, I...
  13. [INFJ] Tips for the consummate narcissist? INFJ brand?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Is it just me or is everything made of reflective material these days? Need some piercing barbs of advice on how to forget about self for a while...in growing measure. Selfishness sucks. Ummm yes. Constructive meaness is OK today...(All types welcome)
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