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  1. Is gender and sex the same thing?

    Member Polls
    It's a poll about language, and what is the most common understanding in the usage of those terms. I'm obviously concerned by this question as I'm trans, and I'm a proponent of a dissociation between gender and sex. But because I know that in english those words tend to be interchangeable...
  2. [INTJ] INTJ Male--Is He Into Me or Just Waiting For Sex?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I'm an INxP female, writing about a mature INTJ male in his thirties. I'm developing feelings for him and I'm confused; I would love to get some perspective from you mature INTJs out there. We've been on several dates now. He mentioned early on that he likes me. He's asked me about my...
  3. [INFP] Tinder, sex and the masters of charm - help an ENTP girl out!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello my beloved better halfs, I met someone of your "kind" after talking to him for several weeks on Tinder. The chemistry was there, and he's almost to sweet for me, this innocent and intelligent charming INFP guy in his 20's. Sooo we could not really stop ourselfes, things happened and...
  4. I have no sex drive unless I am connected to you

    Sex and Relationships
    I noticed that I can find a guy attractive, but I don't ever have sexual fantasies about them. If I ever want to get frisky by myself I come up with a made-up fantasy and actually make up a relationship in my head to get turned on by. Something about fantasizing a deep loving connection is such...
  5. [ENFP] Are any of you having a "dead bedroom" situation?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Inspired from the r/deadbedrooms sub on reddit. Are any of you guys here having partners who aren't wanting sex as much as you or just stopped sex all together? If so, have you done or are you doing anything about it? Are you THAT partner? Going through that sub reddit, I'm appalled by how...
  6. [ESFP] Wtf is this post count limit bs?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    imgur DOT com/yi0I3GG How am I supposed to share my beautiful thoughts with all these damn rules?
  7. Porn has become more aggressive/degrading in the last couple of decades

    Sex and Relationships
  8. [INTJ] INTJ Sudden Dominance Of The Sensual Realm

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I was watching a moderately popular MBTI YouTuber called "C.S. Joseph" and he's done a few videos on INTJs I watched. One of the most interesting things he posited is that INTJs have a secret side of themselves that are very physically adept. He specifically mentioned them being a virtuoso in...
  9. [ENFP] INFJ or ISFJ lovers?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    A question for ENFPs. Which type can you envision having a long lasting relationship with, marriage and platonic: INFJs or ISFJs? If you would, explain the reason for your answer and any personal experience in this scenario you may have. ~Cheers :heart: (If you're too lazy to write a response...
  10. Would you say you are attractive and how do you feel about it?

    Sex and Relationships
    I feel like I can confidently say I'm pretty, whether or not or I'd go a step farther and say that I'm hot I think depends on the person, Although I have been told that. And like yes, on the one hand, who's going to complain about that? But on the other, sometimes I feel like it creates this...
  11. [INFJ] INFJ/INFP Sexual Compatibility

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi Guys, Just started dating an INFP, I suppose I'll find out eventually, but am just wondering what ya'll's experiences have been. Please give answers beyond individual physical characteristics specific to your guy/gal, and instead focus on general vibe, rhythm, flow, problems/Positives.
  12. [INFP] INFJ/INFP Sexual Compatibility

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi Guys, Just started dating an INFP, I suppose I'll find out eventually, but am just wondering what ya'll's experiences have been. Please give answers beyond individual physical characteristics, and instead focus on general vibe, rhythm, flow, problems/Positives. Thanks y'all!
  13. Do Sexual Roles Get Prioritized Higher than MBTI Personality Role Needs?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I have noticed in relationships - particularly in people under 30 - that sexual roles seem to be the largest factor in self-reported satisfaction with the relationships, much to the detriment of other personality needs. I am not referring to just sex, but to the interaction of partners on a...
  14. [INTP] I need help in my relationship with an INTP

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hello! I've been in a LDR with an INTP for the last almost six months. I'm an INFP :) He likes to argue, well, he used to like to argue for the weirdest things. It was mainly because he was insecure, I guess he bottled it up and it exploded at random times. I ended up getting my feelings hurt...
  15. [ESTP] Knowing our fetishes from a young age?

    ESTP Forum - The Doers
    Do dominant Se users discover their fetishes way sooner than those without dominant Se? I'd like to read your takes on this. Personally, I knew before my teen years that I had a massive fetish for martial arts...and facesitting. The high I feel from watching martial arts fights turns to lust...
  16. [ENFP] Here's The Biggest Turn-on For ENFPs

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    So I was viewing different blog posts on ENFPs and came across this post: (Quote) Here's the biggest turn-on for ENFPs - Individuality. ENFPs love someone who shows a sense of individuality and independence. A person who has their own dreams and desires is going to be completely intriguing to...
  17. [ENFP] How Important Are Other's Physical Appearances (attractiveness) To ENFPs?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    How important is physical looks/appearances/attractiveness to ENFPs? I would assume there are more male ENFPs that place a greater important on physical appearance versus females. On a scale from 1 - 10 (10 being the most important attribute to see in a partner) rate how important are these...
  18. [Enneagram Type 8] Are you sexually dominant or submissive?

    Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    8s are naturally dominant in the way they navigate the world. But, as an 8, are you still dominant during sex, or do you like to feel submissive for once? If you chose submissive, do you still feel like it is a powerful act to be submissive, or does it turn you on to lose control?
  19. [ENFP] Friendship or Romantic Interest . . . ?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Do you ENFPs prefer ESFPs as friends or romantic partners?
  20. [ENFP] What are some signs that a female ENFP is romantically interested in you?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello, ENFPs! I'm just curious. Above all personality types, you ladies are the hardest to figure out. How do you normally act when in the presence of a guy that you have a crush on/romantically interested in? Assuming you don't know how he feels about you, are you more inclined to make...