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  1. Do Sexual Roles Get Prioritized Higher than MBTI Personality Role Needs?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I have noticed in relationships - particularly in people under 30 - that sexual roles seem to be the largest factor in self-reported satisfaction with the relationships, much to the detriment of other personality needs. I am not referring to just sex, but to the interaction of partners on a...
  2. Best way to support my girlfriend with vaginismus?

    Sex and Relationships
    Hey everyone, I am going to apologize in advance for what will probably be a long post, as this is a pretty complicated situation (or at least it seems that way to me)! If you actually make it through this and respond, thanks so much! So, I've been dating a girl for about 4 months now. The...
  3. How do you deal with rejection ?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I don't normally do this but I have been feeling down since last night. I don't know how to retreat to a "fantasy" world and probably should not anyway, but an issue has been bugging me since a while and it keeps recurring to me like a recurring sort of nightmare. I have been in a...
  4. Push My Buttons

    Sex and Relationships
    Everyone has that spot, that phrase, that thing that just instantly turns you on. It could be something whispered in you ear, a look given to you, a gentle caress across your leg, or hips, or neck, or ear or anywhere and it just *ooooo* sends shivers down your body that you just can't control...
  5. [ENFJ] Any other ENFJ+ENTJ couples out there?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I am an ENFJ (f) and my boyfriend is an ENTJ. I feel like what we have is incredibly unique, we share a bond that is undeniably strong, we get each other on a level that surpasses words. We just feel powerful together, ready to take on the world. Of course we have our fights, that often stem...
  6. [ISTP] Are you really that good in bed?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Okay now I now that ISTPs are labeled as some kind of champions of the under the sheets Olympics but what strikes me as odd that there is no way an ISTP would say anything about it publicly. I assume these statements are made by other personality types who can be just people who probably don't...
  7. Need Help

    Help! I am in a relationship with a live in boyfriend for about 2 years now our relationship at first was very sexual and it was nice but every since we moved in together everything has changed we have sex MAYBE once every 4-6 weeks I get very sexually frustrated till the point I have thought...
  8. [INFP] INFP's & Casual Sex

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I posted this in the love and relationship section first, but I guess this is more of an INFP specific question :) So here it is: This has been in my mind for a little while. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years, who I had a very deep meaningful relationship with. Since we broke...
  9. INFPS and casual sex?

    Sex and Relationships
    This has been in my mind for a little while. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years, who I had a very deep meaningful relationship with. Since we broke up I've had a few casual relationships and have mixed feelings about them. They don't necessarily feel meaningless or make me feel...
  10. [INTP] What turns INTP's on?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Not trying to hijack your INTP forum or anything, but as aN ENFJ who is in a relatively new relationship with an INTP I find myself wondering, "What generally turns you on?" I would assume intellectual pursuits and conversation...but I have asked my new INTP guy about this and he just says...
  11. [ENFJ] Do ENFJs tend to romanticize? How to Live in Reality in Our Dating & Relationships...

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Do ENFJs tend to romanticize? How to Live in Reality in Our Dating & Relationships... I'm posting this because I'd love to know what you guys think of NF's daydreaming as it pertains to dating/potential relationships. In other areas of my life, being a dreamer has actually benefited me...
  12. The Demise of Guys

    Sex and Relationships
    Hello PerC world :) I was originally going to post this in the INFP forum (sharing with my fellow MBTI types) but I think this holds some value and justice for many people, especially in places like this (forums, internet). I'm not sure if this will be of value to anyone, but in the chance it...
  13. [ENFP] Virginity... loss of

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    So how did you ENFPs lose your virginity? Was sex something you were curious about so you just dove in? Or did some of you wait for love? Any other extensive description is absolutely fine. *Thread borrowed, with thanks, from the ENTP forum...
  14. [ENFP] dating a fellow ENFP?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'd love to hear what it's been like for any ENFPs to date one of our own:-)
  15. guy frustration

    So I've liked one of my supervisors at work for a while now. I started last December, and I started having a thing for him around February. My job has a rule about supervisors not dating employees, which makes sense. You don't want somebody skeevy to take advantage of somebody they have power...
  16. My Myers-Briggs Sex Survey

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hooray! I've made 15 posts so now I can post the link to the survey I set up. There are a lot of threads for individual types asking about sexual preferences, but there doesn't seem to be much point unless you can compare against other types. I'm not sure if the results are available to the...
  17. ENFJ/ESFJ with an INFP?

    Sex and Relationships
    I guess my matches are ENFJ and ESFJ... Generally I find that I'm attracted to INTJ's and don't get along with extroverts. I'd like to know how those types act in relationships with each other. ESFJ/ENFPs, how were your relationships with INFPs? INFP's, how were your relationships with ESFJ/ENFJs?