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  1. Nine Shades of ONE

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Nine shades of ONE 125/152 • Studious, helpful and intellectual ONE; • Most rejection avoiding and pedagogical ONE; will often do anything to feel needed and resourceful; • Compared to other ONES, this ONE is more detail-oriented and oscillate between sociability and reclusion. It can also...
  2. My Gut Type: Either 8w9, 9w8, or 1w9

    What's my personality type?
    My Gut Type: Either 8w9, 9w8, or 1w9. Plz help. I'm currently stuck between these three as my gut type: 9w8, 8w9, and 1w9. So my entire type would look like one of these combinations. - ENTP 7w8 9w8 3w4 sx/so - ENTP 7w8 8w9 3w4 sx/so - ENTP 7w8 1w9 3w4 sx/so Is there any way someone could...
  3. My Gut Type: Either 8w9, 9w8, or 1w9

    What's my personality type?
    Woops, sorry. This was posted prematurely. Ignore it. :P
  4. Can Your Instincts Ever Change?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Title says it all, but I was wondering if your instincts can ever change? Whether it be the order, or intensity of each instinct, etc... Asking for a friend. :tongue:
  5. [Enneagram Type 6] Transition from phobic to counterphobic?

    Type 6 Forum - The Loyalist
    Hi all, I'm a sx-6 with mostly phobic tendencies, but last year an enneagram expert told me, "I would bet that within the next five years you'll be counterphobic." I assume she said this because I'm a sexual instinctive type. I have been unable to find any postings from people who have...
  6. What is it like having no Sx in your instinctual stack?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    As an Sx-dom, I can't imagine not having it. How do you (so/sp's and sp/so's) see yourself different from people with Sx in their stack?
  7. [Enneagram Type 9] calling all 9w1 sp/sx's !

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    hey guys thought I'd try to make a gathering of 9w1 sp/sx folk as this is what I think I am ! It would be lovely to meet some like minded souls and plus as well,.. I dunno if anyone has read the bliss stream type/wing/stack thing but the Introverted Sensation type reference was chillingly...
  8. [Enneagram Type 9] Is this normal behaviors for a Sexual Nine (9w8)?

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I have a friend who may be a 9w8. I am wondering does he have a Sexual variant because he gets frustrated when he is single (hate being alone) and when he has a girlfriend...she becomes his whole world outside of work, especially with the 2w3 he is with now. I think he is merging or codependent...
  9. Sexual Attraction

    Sex and Relationships
    How can you tell if you feel sexual attraction towards someone? To be honest, I'm confused. :confused2: People say that you just *know* if you do, but their descriptions are too vague and it makes me even more confused. Thank you!
  10. [Enneagram Type 9] What Enneatypes are most compatible with 9w1?

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I wonder what Enneatype would be most compatible with a 9w1? Are you a 9w1 in a relationship or is your partner a 9w1? What is your Enneatype if not 9w1? Does Instinctual or Subtype stackings play a role in your relationship's success or failure? Anything you can share is appreciated. I...
  11. Type 4s with different Tritypes and Instinct Michael Jackson and Prince

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Type 4 Michael Jackson and Prince, the positive 4s Here one day and gone the next… ©2016 Katherine Chernick Fauvre Michael Jackson and Prince are musical legends and gone way too soon. Throughout their amazing careers the two megastars enjoyed great successes. They both came of age in the 80s...
  12. [Enneagram Type 5] Is it possible to find that ideal love? SX 5w4

    Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    These excerpts make us look so needy! lol. But, even though I rarely express it in real life, this description is accurate. Maybe it is unhealthy, and maybe just a manifistation on my bad childhood... probably both, but this is a big part of who I am. I've never been in a real relationship...
  13. Sexual... Hot, Dripping Sexual...

    Yes, there are a lot of Sx mistypes. People seem to forget it's the Hunter-Predator instinct. It's about zeroing in on a target of desired energy, with the goal of sucking it dry. It's about drawing attention to yourself, to be desired, to crave and to be craved,.. The wet, pulsing, aggressive...
  14. [INFJ] Numb INFJ With Spouse-Sexual Intimacy Issues

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    UPDATE: I'm really grateful for everyone's advice! It was very helpful for us and we actually had fun reading through everyone's feedback. I really appreciate it. I think we both know what we need to work on and he's happy to feel more understood, as well as, motivated to make healthier...
  15. Finally! A place where INFJ/p 4w5's aren't Lie-Detector'd

    I've been testing and typing my personality, and having others test it, on and off since I was 13. In the years of Tumblr Special Snowflakes—which tragically coincided with the years I went from hating to loving myself—I stunted my "permission" to myself to ever post on these websites, because...
  16. [Enneagram Type 6] What is Good About Being a Type 6 SX-dom?

    Type 6 Forum - The Loyalist
    I have heard many members of PerC talk about being intimidated by SX-dom Type 6's - - and can be rather hard on them for their spirit of intensity. I was curious about things that are "good" about being a Type 6 SX-dom. If you are a Type 6 SX-dom, what do you like about it? If you know or have...
  17. SX-dom's: How Do You Accept People's Responses to Your Energy?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hey fellow SX-dom's! I have a question for you! How do you accept or deal with people's responses to your energy? I feel like, more than with SP-dom's or SO-dom's, SX-dom's are likely to get either a positive or negative reaction (whereas SP or SO might get a more neutral response). I don't...
  18. Where Can I Find Other SX Types (irl)?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    It seems the Personality Cafe forums are teeming with SX-dom's. I absolutely love and adore this, because I frequently feel like a minority of one in the real world. I realized the other day, that most of my friends are SO/SX - - I figured out that this was due to my own laziness (SO-dom's tend...
  19. ENFP Sex Drive!!!

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So I just made this to ask fellow ENFPs a question... Are you really horny a lot? For me anyway, I find that yeah I am really horny a lot! I'm not really horny in the sort of "I want to have sex" sort of want, it's more like I want to have a passionate, beautiful, sexy moment. Sometimes it has...