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  1. [Enneagram Type 8] Are you sexually dominant or submissive?

    Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    8s are naturally dominant in the way they navigate the world. But, as an 8, are you still dominant during sex, or do you like to feel submissive for once? If you chose submissive, do you still feel like it is a powerful act to be submissive, or does it turn you on to lose control?
  2. [INFP] Twin flame love story between INFP and INFJ writers

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey all, I've met my twin soul a bit more than three years ago, and I will share with you my love story in several entries. I used to identify myself with INFP and I believe she behaves as an INFJ. It's a bit long, but I believe it's worth sharing. I've written only the first few chapters, and...
  3. What do you find most aesthetically pleasing on a partner ?

    Sex and Relationships
    I love me a lovely bosom on a woman, some hips with a bit extra on them and a cute butt is always appreciated :tongue: toned legs are always tantalizing.:smug: On a guy I love arms! they don't even have to work out, Ill sit there squeezing them all night, pecks as well.:oh: We are visual...
  4. [INTP] Trends within INTPs - your opinion?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Across various MBTI forums, I've detected some trends that seem more common in INTPs. Most of my observations are specifically related to INTP women, but they likely apply to men as well. The majority of the people I've "observed" had all of these together. Personally, I believe that each of...
  5. [INFJ] INFJs and demisexuality?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm curious what other INFJs have to say about demisexuality. (I did a bit of research and there was another thread from July, but it seemed to focus a lot on whether or not people felt demisexuality was a distinct sexual identity or just "pickiness" or a departure from the "normal" expressions...
  6. Have you ever felt like you just had NO GENDER?

    Sex and Relationships
    OK so I've been thinking about this for a while. And by a while I mean basically my entire life. When I discovered Mbti and was typed as INTJ it was really reassuring for me to have some sort of community label describe me succinctly in terms other than FEMALE, WOMAN, or GIRL, because so many...
  7. [ENTP] ENTP Sexuality and Sexual Preferences

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I've heard a lot about ENTP's being very open and non-judgmental, and I find the subject of sexuality extremely intriguing. I was just wondering what you all have for general sexuality and preferences? Sexually, I am demi-asexual because I can be asexual and completely uninterested in anything...
  8. Discovering one's sexual orientation

    Sex and Relationships
    I am a 21 year old male, never been in a romantic or sexual relationship. I am only sexually attracted to females and would like to have long-term relationship with a woman, have kids etc. However, over the past year I've become increasingly "fond" of my best friend (who is also male). I don't...
  9. [INFP] Dating confusion, depression, sexuality

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Alright, so this is my first post on this forum and I'm a bit nervous if I'm doing this right or not. But I am going through a hard time in my life and want to get this out to somebody... I am a 20 year old male currently not in school been bouncing back and forth from jobs not being happy with...
  10. Is Demisexuality Gender Specific?

    Sex and Relationships
    Would one differentiate between a straight demisexual and a gay one for instance? Does demisexuality dictate anything about sexual orientation based on sex or gender? Are demisexuals more likely to be bi/pansexual? Edit: Also where does one draw the line between finding someone aesthetically...
  11. [INFP] He came out to me as bisexual, and now avoiding me?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I am an INFP female, who has had a mostly platonic friendship with an IN*P male for several years. We spent many months going on quasi-dates, and nothing really ever came of it, but we became close friends in the process. He recently got back in touch, and told me about a casual girlfriend he...
  12. ENFP Sex Drive!!!

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So I just made this to ask fellow ENFPs a question... Are you really horny a lot? For me anyway, I find that yeah I am really horny a lot! I'm not really horny in the sort of "I want to have sex" sort of want, it's more like I want to have a passionate, beautiful, sexy moment. Sometimes it has...
  13. Being a hypersexual introvert

    Sex and Relationships
    I enjoy being alone, and thinking alone, with exceptions for people I find interesting, as long as there is no lagging small talk and we are both as interested in what is being discussed as one another. The problem is that I also have a huge sex drive. At the same time as I want to be alone I'm...
  14. Coming Out

    Sex and Relationships
    Hello Personalitycafe, today I'm coming out as asexual, woo! :laughing: I'd been toying with it for a while, and was reasonably convinced I was for a while now, but the confusion between arousal, libido and attraction had held me back from an actual conclusion. That was until about half an hour...
  15. What is your sexuality?

    Member Polls
    I'm just curious about the diversity. Mostly became curious when I found there are a notable number of pans on P.C. (which isn't too common) ^^ It's easy enough of a poll to conduct
  16. INFPs more open minded in dating?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    do you think INFPs are more open minded in dating in terms of dating outside their social group, 'race', ethnicity, religion, etc? Like it's more dependent on personality, rather than societal norms? Like they're driven more by the idealism of their heart? Also I'm not sure if there's any fact...
  17. [Enneagram Type 5] Type 5w4 sexuality

    Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    I was inspired by a thread, posted by Shadowolf in the INTP forum, to attempt to find out if there is any correlation between enneagram 5w4 and someone's sexual orientation. The majority of INTPs that I have talked to who are 5w4 have been pansexual or asexual (both often find gender...
  18. [INTJ] INTJ's and homosexuality.

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I myself am, a pansexual, so I have no problem with gay people obviously. I just want to know how other INTJ's feel about it? And if you are, have you said it to other people? I myself have only told only one person about my sexuality, and he was ok with it. But, I'm not too open or obvious...
  19. Asexual?

    Sex and Relationships
    Okay. Let's huddle up and talk about feelings!!! Or, potentially lack thereof. Adolescence. A time of self-discovery and confusion. Kids, flourishing into adults, and making a lot of mistakes in the process. And I don't think there's anything wrong with trying to figure out who you are. That's...
  20. [INFJ] INFJs and Sexual Insecurity

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I posted this on a completely unrelated forum, and then realized that it would be a good idea as well to post it on the forum where people can actually verify if my perception of MBTI types is accurate. The subject is how INFJs tend towards a black-and-white view of sexuality, leading to...