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  1. When life gets crazy...

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  2. [INTP] Fear and anxiety of keeping eye-contact

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hello fellow INTP's. I have recently become more self-conscious of my Ti-function and failed to retype myself as an ENTP. Although, I have for long tried to come up with, and find, a good reason to still consider myself an ENTP instead of an INTP, only this one trait has divided me the most...
  3. How are social 9w8s like?

    What's my Enneagram type?
    I'm wondering whether 9w8 is my second fix and I'm looking up descriptions of social 9s but they all seem to be describing 9w1s. I REALLY relate to them anyway but are there any examples of social 9w8s? Does anyone know a social 9w8? How are they like? Thanks for reading this and hope someone...
  4. [ENFJ] ENFJ CRUSH! HELP! How do you know if an ENFJ likes you?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I'm an INFP. I am new to this site so I'm not sure if i'm posting in the correct forum so forgive me if I'm not. Anyway I have a crush on an ENFJ and had a few questions to ask the ENFJs on this site. (I am not close to the ENFJ. I guess you can call us acquaintances) How do you know if an ENFJ...
  5. Ambivert? Does that describe you?

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    Hello everyone, first of all let me introduce myself. I am pretty sure about my 3 letters -STJ. But it is very hard for me to determine whether I am Introvert or Extrovert. The last time I take the 16personalities MBTI test, the result shows that I am 55% extrovert, while 45% introvert...
  6. [INFJ] Putting up walls (an INFJ problem?)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi all :) I have a lot of trouble trying to open up with people. While I get along with almost everyone and have a good number of friends, I'e never been able to be my complete self with them. It never used to bother me much as I felt like that was part of the social norm, but I've started to...
  7. HOW TO GREET EACH TYPE (a guide)

    Myers Briggs Forum
    ISTJ: firm handshake. Excessive touching (hugging, for example) is inappropriate. Conversation should be polite and focused. Too many gestures indicate a lack of composure. Keep your hands at your sides and maintain eye-contact. ESTJ: crisp salute. Always refer to the ESTJ with a title and his...
  8. [INFJ] Has anyone else had this problem in the "social environment"?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    As of recently I have made a personal discovery about the origins of how and why I have a certain fear. And it also ties in with the Enneagram 4 labeled fear "that they have no identity or personal significance". Generally, with "friends" (both close and acquaintance) I tend to hide away or...
  9. [INFJ] INFJs... Please explain your social wizardy

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So one of my best mates is an INFJ... known him sense I and him were babies started referring to each other as cousins around our teenage years a long time ago so family basically and his social finesse is ridiculous by that I don't mean the most extroverted or life of the party or what have you...
  10. [INFJ] Feeling drained by other people my age.

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    This Jung quote is really resonating with me recently- “Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself..." I feel like every time I try to hang out with someone around my age (mid-late 20s, even early 30s)...
  11. [ISTJ] What MBTI types are your closest friends?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    As the title suggests, please state your closest Friends' MBTI types (We don't need any names) and what you like about them. Even if its just a habit of theirs, put it on the list. This is mostly for ISTJs but of course all types are welcome! No unrelated topics though please, as there are...
  12. [ENTP] Do most people like or dislike you? Why do you think so?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I tend to have a love/hate relationships with people. Some people act like they don't like me when they really do and others don't acknowledge me at all. Lol. How about you guys? Overall, I think most people dislike me which is expected. I tend to start off as a likable person until I open my...
  13. [INTJ] How to cope in a socially centered job.

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi. I am a young person, and I am trying to better myself. I really struggle with being around other people. My Mom says I am great with people, but she has to say that. Shes my Mom. Since I'm a young person I am poor and the only type of jobs I can get are retail related jobs. At the moment I...
  14. Sexual... Hot, Dripping Sexual...

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    Yes, there are a lot of Sx mistypes. People seem to forget it's the Hunter-Predator instinct. It's about zeroing in on a target of desired energy, with the goal of sucking it dry. It's about drawing attention to yourself, to be desired, to crave and to be craved,.. The wet, pulsing, aggressive...
  15. [Enneagram Type 4] Questions For Social Fours

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Hi, social 4s! I want to understand you better and I have some questions for you. Any responses would be super appreciated. My questions: 1. How do you know you're a social Four? 2. How well do you relate to these descriptions? Have any thoughts/disagreements? I'm very, very interested...
  16. [ISFJ] Social Anxiety

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I understand everyone has anxiety issues to a degree but, after getting a better understanding of my MBIT, it makes me curious if it's more common for ISFJs to experience an unusual level of social anxiety? It is so hard to explain, I will try... When people I don't know see or meet me, I have...
  17. [INFJ] INFj and socialising

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey Guys, It is my first thread, I find that it is difficult to be social, I think I don't trust people easily. I have had defective friendships in the past, I think that's why I am a little paranoid. One of close friends once told me that the probability of finding good friend betwwen new...
  18. [INFJ] Tips for making friends in a new city.

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I've fallen into a trap I believe many INFJ's can likely relate to. I love the city I live in, but when my year long relationship ended recently, I realized that I don't know anyone here except men who I used to date before I met my long term boyfriend. Suddenly, my awkward social skills and...
  19. integration..

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    Why can't I let myself socially integrate? I usually end up just feeling like this, as if my intensity were a whole separate dimension added onto me, acting as a force field to keep people away. I really need people, and I love being around them... it's just that I believe I have deep mistrust...
  20. [ENTP] ENTP 3w2 and Shyness/Anxiety

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hey guys! I'm an ENTP and I'm generally social and outgoing with everyone. However there are times where I have my shy moments and it's frustrating me to death. I'm almost certain that my shy/quiet moments stems from my overabundance of anxiety. A lot of times I like to plan out what to say and...
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