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  1. What is Winona Ryder's enneagram type?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Any fans here of Winona Ryder? I'm a huge fan of her and could resonate with her awfully well. Turns out she's an INFP 4 just like me. However, I was wondering about her wing, and her tritype (I'm a 459) as well as her instinctual variant (I'm an so/sp). Can anyone tell me what she is?
  2. an INTP that would like to make some friends :)

    Hi! I'm an INTP, 4w5, so/sp living in California. I like math, writing, and drawing, and decided to make an account here because it seemed like a pretty cool site. I love listening to music, especially alternative rock, but I'm still have a little of my k-pop phase in me. I like Muse, BTS, and...
  3. What is it like having no Sx in your instinctual stack?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    As an Sx-dom, I can't imagine not having it. How do you (so/sp's and sp/so's) see yourself different from people with Sx in their stack?
  4. My Theory On The Synflow/Contraflow Instinct Distinction

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    For review: Here's a trend that I see: what essentially differentiates the contraflow stackings from the synflow stackings is their relationship to their tertiary instincts. The contraflow stackings have a more negativistic or combative relationship with their last instinct than those of the...
  5. [Enneagram Type 1] What is the difference between a 1 sp/so and a 1 so/sp?

    Type 1 Forum - The Reformer
    Some writers differ with these two variant stacks and I dont know which one is telling me the "truth". For example with Naranjo and Chesnut I'm a 1 so/sp but with the descriptions i read at the internet I'm sp/so. Can you help me with this please? :D
  6. [Enneagram Type 4] Enneagram Type 4 subtypes poll and discussion

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I am not sure if this type of thread has been made or not but I thought it would be useful for anybody who is a subtype 4w5 or 4w3 with their respective instinctual variant to vote on the poll which one you are and discuss a little about how you figured out your type, any problems that you have...
  7. How can SX-lasts cultivate deeper, more intimate relationships?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    I'm Sx-last. I'm very happy and comfortable being sx-last, and this isn't intended to be a whiny question. But I've reached a point in my life where I'm frustrated by the lack of intimacy in my relationships, especially my friendships. I'm constantly worried that I'm boring my sx-first and...
  8. [Enneagram Type 4] Any 4w5 so/sp's out there?

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I'm a 4w5 so/sp, but one of my friends told me I seemed like a 4w3. I was wondering what other 4w5 so/sp's are like. Have any of you guys been mistaken for a 4w3, before? Actually, I don't think neither of my wings are strong. I'm not really a heavy 4w5, but I don't know for sure. I don't...
  9. So/sp and Enneagram Types

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Since so little attention is paid to those with the so/sp stacking on this forum, I decided to ask a few questions and start a conversation. 1. If you're so/sp, what is your type and wing? 2. How does your Enneagram type and wing affect how your express your instincts? 3. Does your...
  10. [Enneagram Type 4] Fe 4s vs. Fi 4s or INFJ (INTP) 4s vs. XNFP 4s - How do they differ?

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I am wondering if the reason that I had so much trouble figuring out that I was a 4w5 as opposed to a 5w4 has everything to do with being an INFJ and a Fe types - as Fe types, being other oriented conflicts with the 4s self-based orientation. I am also well aware that the vast majority of 4s on...
  11. How do you do SX?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    How does an sx last person get in touch with this instinct? And apparently sx/so's are "in touch with the core meaning of life and death". What's this mean? Any sx-doms care to enlighten?
  12. Social Subtype and Dominant Fe

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Do you see correlation between Social Subtype and Extraverted Feeling? How do you separate one from the other? How do you determine one's instinctual variant without being distracted by the influence of Fe/not paying too much attention to it? Share some thoughts. :)
  13. SO/SP or SO/SX?

    What's my Enneagram type?
    I'd like to know the main differences and similarities between SO/SP's and SO/SX's since I'm a little stuck between the two. ^^ Thanks in advance! Static