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  1. [ENFP] Do Your Speak "Scattershot" Style?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Just wondering if when you talk you say lots of "ums" and "likes" as your brain moves faster than your words? I think this might be part of being an ENFP but I'm not sure. I've linked a video below where the vlogged speaks in that style. I do a little bit but not as bad as her.
  2. Can you guess someone's type just by observing the way they speak ?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Is there a way to type people through observation by the way they communicate ?
  3. Figuring out when to speak up, and when to shut up!

    I am old enough that you would think I'd have this completely figured out. There are times that I don't speak up when I should have, and there are definitely occasions when I would like to have my words back. Sometimes I spend so much time trying to figure out whether I should or shouldn't...
  4. [INTP] INTP Speak - Things We Say

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hey there, As an INTP, I seem to find myself using key phrases and words that I've learned will help others better understand where I am coming from. It occurred to me that other INTPs might be doing the same and that it would be interesting to share our "translated" speak with each other. So...
  5. [INTP] Do you find yourself, as an INTP, moving...........

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Do you find yourself, as an INTP, moving your lips like you are speaking but without sound emanating from your mouth just moments before you actually speak the words? I remember as a child my brother asking me why I would speak, or rather move my lips, without saying anything, only to say the...
  6. [INTP] after the fact the strategy correlates in the red crossing yeild to extort....

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I found this video hilarious, and it demonstrates how people WILL pretend like they comprehend when they actually don't to serve their interests. However it will also give some people too easy an excuse to assume that if there is something that sounds complicated it must be bullshit, when it...
  7. ...not entirely sure what I'm doing right now (new INTJ)

    Hello everybody, I'm an INTJ, not a particularly strong one, I think. I've taken some personality tests and I've always scored INTJ but I'm a bit low on the T. I've always been strongly introverted, which may explain why I've also never posted on a forum blog in my life, so I'm skeptical about...
  8. [INFJ] What is your speech style like? Talkative, quiet, soft, loud, etc.

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    What is your speech style like? I know that this is an INFJ forum but ".............." is not an answer =P I mean, are you soft spoken? Are you loud? Do you seldom speak? Do you talk constantly? that kind of thing. Personally I'm insanely soft spoken to the point people can't hear me half the...
  9. [INFJ] Are you good at public speaking?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey there! Just wondering about your experiences with public speaking, as I have a huge activity of this kind in a couple of weeks and I have no idea whether I'll do well or not( 15 minutes talk). I've given speeches before, but they were pretty short and with a familiar audience. Needless to...
  10. [INTP] Tongue-Tied

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Under what circumstances are you likely to get tongue-tied? "Tongue-tied" means stumbling over words or unintentionally saying the wrong words, rather than the usual INTP pauses for thought. Hang on, poll on the way.
  11. [ENFP] Would this be a good idea to speak out against this? If so HELP!

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    So my friend and I were talking about bullies. I don't like seeing bullying at all. I wante to start some kind of organization to stop bullying because our school's way of handling bullying is very delayed, redundant, impersonal, and not a priority. I was thinking along the lines of giving a...
  12. [INFJ] What do people think of your voice?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I've noticed that INFJ's tend to have a low and soft speaking voice. I've been told that I have a maternal sounding voice that's very no nonsense. I mumble terribly and have wonky English pronunciation skills despite it being my first language. On a good day I sound like Mr.Rogers. On a bad day...
  13. Power of Spoken Words

    As an INFP, I have the typical difficulty with spoken expression. Is this because of shyness or lack of confidence? Not in my case. I need time to form my sentence carefully. Time to mull over the implications of using each word. Why so careful? Because spoken words are powerful. Perhaps the...