I grew up spoiled. Middle class New Yorker, got many things I wanted, barely did any chores growing up, have traveled to many places under the budget of my parents, AND got spanked hard ( just to balance things out). Early 20's...and I can say that it has been a detriment more so than...

Hello all! Please excuse the long backstory! I promise, there is a reason and a question at the end. A friend of mine, somewhere between INFJ and ENFJ, was recently dumped by an ESTP. She's furious with him for frequently flip-flopping, hot and cold, not being able to commit—all things I quite...