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  1. Are you INFPs good at small talk?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    And if so, do you have any advice? People often remark that I barely talk but it's not because I am uninteresting, it's just that small talk does not interest me and I don't have a clue what to say as talking about people and other trivial stuff isn't something I enjoy. I am not the loquacious...
  2. Would you like to call sometime?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hi! ... *5 minutes later* Well I can't think of a good way to begin this, so I'm going to awkwardly draw attention to that and then move on. :) I'm lonely, would like to make new friends, and am wondering if anyone would like to Skype sometime? Or WhatsApp call? Typing is great and all - and...
  3. [ENFP] ENFPs and Small-talk

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I was under the impression ENFPs can talk for hours and never tire, but after seeing this post on Pinterest, it made me question my previous understanding: So could it be true? Do ENFPs loathe small-talk?
  4. [ENFP] "Real" ENFP Flirting - What does it look like???

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    As naturally flirty and bubbly people, what does "real" flirting look like in an ENFP? * Do you exude confidence around your crush, words slide off your tongue like a 90s R&B singer, feel like you're the best thing since James Bond or * Are you a complete blubbering mess and wish the ground...
  5. Do you smoke ?

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    How many smokers do we have here ? :ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2::ghost2:
  6. [INFP] Yeeee Yoooo Guys. I WANT TO TALK <3

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    new here :happy:
  7. [INTP] INTP Upset

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hello! Former INTP here, Female, 25 (I sometimes test 9% F now that I've forced myself over horribly painful social comfort zones. It works. Kinda) seeing another INTP, Male, 23. We are not officially "together," but sure act like it. It's been a year now. He's definitely less developed in the...
  8. [ISTP] How do I talk to you guys?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    This ISTP guys texts me first, which I assume means he wants to talk. But he only ever replies with one word. He'll ask me to talk,"Tell me something. Anything." So I will, and then he'll only reply with one word. So I stop talking and then he asks me to talk again. So I'll do my best to hold...
  9. Relationship Advice??

    Sex and Relationships
    Hello PCafe Family!! :) I have had some relationship drama for the past 6 months, which has been the majority of my college year... so I turn to my fellow Personality Theorists who will understand! I am an INFP, who from others peoples points of view, seems to be and ENFP! I am very social, go...
  10. [INFP] Depression venting

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Sometimes you need to vent. With mental illnesses such as depression it's particularly important to get the chance to vent to someone who just listens and gives some kind of response. With this post I take the initiative to listen to whoever feels like they wanna lift some weight off their...
  11. [INFJ] Is he interested in me or is he making small talk?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I have a crush on an INFJ. I would say that he has a rather well developed Fe. He often talks to strangers and I find him always attempting to break the silence when with other people. Being an INTJ, I'm sort of the type of person who makes an attempt to stand near my crushes and not say...
  12. INFJ here, nice to meet you all!

    Hello there, I just joined this site because I want to get to know new kinds of people. I would be glad to talk to anyone here :D I only know one guy who claims to be an INFJ, but I'm not really sure if he is one tbh. It would be pretty cool to get to talk to someone who has this personality...
  13. [INTP] Metapolitics - Tinychat - Come One, Come all! Meet! Discuss!

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    A simple set of ground rules for starters: 1)No spamming (you shouldn't even be able to do this in the first place so its all good) 2)That's it. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I've had this Tinychat for years and couldn't...
  14. On the Phone...Men Please Explain the Significance?

    Sex and Relationships
    If during a relatively short phone conversation between two new acquaintances, a man clears his throat several times (but when asked laughs and says no, he does not have a cold or sinus issue :) does this infer any mind/body connection? Nervousness, desire or anything else, in your male...
  15. [INTP] Anyone Care to Share Music/Ideas? Stop By the Metapolitics Room!

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I'm curious to see what INTPs (and others as well) have for musical tastes, eclectic and specific, I've been using this website as a stomping grounds for finding new music to add to a pitifully lacking music library. Come on by and share your weird ideas and songs with us! If you don't have an...
  16. [INTP] INTPs, do you think faster than you speak or vice-versa?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I've been wondering whether or not these traits are tied to personality type because I've heard from a few places online that speaking a mile a minute and tripping over words was more of a Te thing while pausing to think before speaking was more of a Ti thing. I'm not an expert, so I turn to...
  17. HI EVERYONE...ISTJ looking for insight and great discussions

    I have trouble making friends easily, and want to get some help, tips, and learn to navigate my personality to create a more balanced life for myself. I'm very friendly, I enjoy chatting about meaningful subjects, and learning interesting things about other people. I've heard that I'm...
  18. [INTP] The INTP Hangout Thread

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Post your random thoughts, discuss and debate topics and just all around hangout in this thread.
  19. [ENTP] Unicorn Thread [ENTP-NF Confabulation]

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    WELCOME TO THE UNICORN THREAD This is a united multi purpose to-be-sticked confabulation index thread for ENTP and INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ Since we are all are fabulous, our relationships are tenfold fabulous. Converse on all topics Previous ENTP-*NF* threads index: INFJ...