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  1. [INFP] How to find emotional strength?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I crumble really easily. Most people don't see me cry though, as I've always hidden it. And I've always been incredibly sad because of situations outside my control that make me feel weak- health and family mostly. But I see other people who are enraged by their struggles, or always have 'fight'...
  2. Jetlag vs What time do you wake up for school/work?

    General Psychology
    Weekdays vs weekends, days with classes vs days without... How do your drag-self-out-of-bed hours differ? At what time do you wake up on days with work/school, and at what time do you wake up on other days? Is there a huge difference and does it affect you physically/mentally in any way? I...
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  4. [INFP] Most Uncomfortable Experience You've Had?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Whether its hypothetical or based on true experiences, INFPs please share. Want to know more about what can provoke INFP into feeling uncomfortable and maybe laying on feelings of stress. Right now, I'm in a situation where I'm being assessed on my ability to participate in group discussion of...
  5. [INFP] I lack of communication skills, and that's ruinning my relationship(s), help

    Advice Center
    Hello everybody, I read the forum sometimes but this is my first post. I'm a 24 years old, INFP, and as long as I can remember, I always had difficulties with communication, no matter who I am talking to, it's always there. Well, it's never been a problem because I never had too many...
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  7. Ne Doms: Does your Ne wear down when you're tired?

    Cognitive Functions
    I wanted to write in a different font then it got all technical and I was like, oh well, I kind of like this default script anyway. I think it has some kind of traditional class. I don't know why but I like typewriter kind of script. Anyway. So I have to get up earlier nowadays for reasons...
  8. [INTP] I'm unsure about my type

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So i got intruduced to the whole world of (mbi, functions, ennegrams and so on) by a "friend" or well more like a acquaintance to me and this far all tests research and so on has resulted the same way, that is me ending up at intp-results all the time. The bizzare thing tho ? Well i still dont...
  9. How often do you feel off kilter after masturbation?

    Sex and Relationships
    When I say 'off kilter' I mean off in an emotional and mental way. :dry: I don't care much for talking about my feelings for long periods of time but I have noticed a pattern with myself that I cannot ignore anymore. Let me start off my hypothesis by suggesting that we all go through ups and...
  10. I'm tired

    Like really. I'm tired. I've been depriving myself of sleep for several days now, for several weeks even. I've been getting sick while recovering from another cold. I just want to have a good night's sleep and wake up in the morning happy as a... happy person. Like, all refreshed, renewed and...
  11. What's the 'horny robot' and how do I find that hunk'a'dunk?

    Hi everyone, I'm the new kid. since this is a Cafe; I want you all to know that in my personal value system, Hazelnut lattes are pretty damn high. :) I suppose the only natural thing to say, is that everyone is going to get their minds blown by my awesome ideas. Feel free to hit me up about...
  12. [ENFJ] I swear my brain is going to explode :(

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hi there , Fellow ENFJS, im elizabeth , a fellow INFJ here. I decided i really need to confide in someone . Lets start off by saying . Im being bullied in school . Have been bullied for 1.5 years in college . And left another 1.5 years with such assholes . But i have been officially...
  13. [Enneagram Type 2] Moved across the country to be with boy who is apparently addicted to plz

    Type 2 Forum - The Helper
    I have been dating a guy that is two year younger than me (I am 22) for roughly three years. Last winter i had a lot of family stress and relapsed into my eating disorder. I was moody and angry all the time and sick. I pack my things and moved away. I didn't really have a plan I just needed to...
  14. 12/1/2015

    What's it worth to act like an angel if all you get is the devil tearing up all of your good work? My perfection is falling apart and this is just unacceptable. All the hard work, all the evilness I ignored, all the smiles I put on my face- and for what? For me to be punished, as if I'm a...
  15. Ode to My Bed!

    Ode to My Bed I run my hand over your soft pillows Oh, How I desire thee. Open your sheets and let me slip between. Your warmth shrouds me. I lay my head upon your pillow. I succumb to sleep Tomorrow I shall leave you, But only for a time Then I will once again find Tranquility in...
  16. [INFP] Tired of being trivialised/marginalised

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Sorry, just need to rant and wanted to see other INFPs' takes on similar experiences. I feel so annoyed when people treat me as stupid when I do things that don't seem to make sense or when I'm unaware of my surroundings. I get it, okay? Just because I'm in a constant blurrish, dream-like state...
  17. [ENTP] Bad mood insta cure

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    So obviously when people are in a bad mood they are really hard to handle with. But even if I try my hardest to interact nicely with others when I'm in a bad mood it seems like my bluntness shines through more than usually and it feels like every d*mn person is a enemy only out to start an...
  18. [INTP] Night People and Tired People: Dumb Enough To Focus?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Could INTPs be similar to programmers even when they aren't? "And when your brain isn’t working at full capacity it looks for something to do. Being tired makes you dumb enough that the task at hand is enough." - Business Insider: Why Programmers Work at Night