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  1. [INTJ] The Saddest @@ INTJ Has Given Up Hope, Trust, and Caring. TRUE????

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    The Saddest @@ INTJ Has Given Up Hope, Trust, and Caring. TRUE???? Has this ever happened to you? How did you survive. . . and thrive?
  2. [ESFP] ENTJ getting ESFP's trust back

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Hi, I'm an ENTJ female and a few years ago, an ESFP started flirting with me. This went on for years but it never progressed to dating, because (weirdly for an ENTJ) I used to be a very shy person. Almost a year ago, I began doing something very bad. (I now know that this is very bad and I...
  3. [ISTP] INFJ having problems with ISTP partner

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hi all, I'm an INFJ and have been with my ISTP boyfriend for a year and a half now. Two months into our relationship, he went travelling, and I found out when he got back that he had kissed another girl when he was drunk. He had also been messaging other girls inappropriately. He told me it...
  4. [INFP] "Proving" Authenticity To An INFP

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Ok, so I've hit a roadblock with the INFP I mentioned on another thread here, that I'm dating. She has brought up in every phone conversation and text conversation the past week that "you be you" and "you don't need to act a certain way around me, I will still like you." or like last night "I'm...
  5. [INTJ] "Deep fake" video technology

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    If you don't yet know what "Deep Fake" technology is, here is a story on it: and here is a great video example: I apologize for not being able to post clickable links, but...
  6. [INFP] Difficult relationship with father

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello everyone! I am not sure if this is a topic that fits well into the INFP category because it could actually concern everyone, but I hope this is still a good place to write this :) The main problem is that since i was a young child i have always had problems with my dad. I know that deep...
  7. [ENFJ] ENFJs - do you trust your gut?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hi ENFJs I am mulling over something and would like to pose three questions to you, before I expand on the context a bit. I will do that if I get some responses but first would just like to know your take on it: 1 - do you trust your gut, in general? 2 - in the first moments (first...
  8. Test I have to find out if someone is a good person or a psycho

    This is completely not professional nor based on any scientific sources. I just wanted to share the way I use my NF skills to assess new people in my life (real life or close friends) to make sure if I can trust them or not. Thing is as an INFP I'm very open, naive and idealistic. My trust is...
  9. [INFP] INFP & ENFJ relationship: INFPs, what do you need from us?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey everyone! I've read many forums on this website before, but this is my first time posting! This is bound to be pretty long and it's totally not necessary to read the entire post to answer the question (so please answer whether you read all of it, skim it, or just the question!!), but my...
  10. Having trouble making trustworthy friends, how to overcome trust issues?

    Advice Center
    Every time I make a friend -- no matter if it's a guy or a girl something always happens and I can't trust him/her. I just want a friend to go places with at any time of the day we want to go somewhere without it meaning anything. Yet, always -- either he begins to fall for me and I don't want...
  11. [INFJ] Easily intimidated?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Are other INFJ's easily intimidated or is it just a personal thing with me? I find myself extremely wary of other people, especially people who give me bad vibes or who are quite a bit taller than I. Is this the regular "INFJ-too-scared-to-trust" taken to extremes or is it normal? Or is it...
  12. INFPs and public displays of emotion

    This is my first time to post a new thread. I hope people of all personality types will feel welcome to respond with their thoughts. As an INFP, I have struggled in both my personal and professional life with managing strong emotions while around other people. Sometimes there just doesn't seem...
  13. [INTJ] I Betrayed My INTJ GF's Trust By Snooping Around Her Social Media

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi personalitycafe, I'm an entj male in a relationship with an intj female for about a year now, and am currently in deep shit. My gf is an active social media user, especially on twitter, and she had had 2 twitter accounts, both for different purposes, before we got together. She knew that I...
  14. [INFP] Tough Love and Sacrficial Love - It's a Warzone

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Something I'll always notice with INFPs, and is what makes me grateful with the way INFJs can control this, is how our empathy and compassion can sometimes deny a form of love which disturbs, threatens and hurts someone. Those three things can occur in the very instant of trying to give tough...
  15. [ENFP] ENFP: Understanding, Trust and Reconciliation (INFx here)

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hey... so I need some insight from you ENFPs! I have this ENFP female friend - beautiful, outgoing, exciting, intellectual and insightful. I'm an INFx male so of course you can see where this is going.. I'm attracted to her! I've known her for a few years but really took major interest under...
  16. Are INTPs more forgiving than INTJs?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    I've heard a lot of INTJs say that when their trust is broken, you'll never get it back, while INTPs don't seem to make a point of saying that. Are INTPs more willing to forgive than INTJs? Why would that be?
  17. [INFP] INFP and ESTJ... Can I gain his trust back? Plzzz

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello :)) :laughing: I just want to tell you that I'm INFP and my boyfriend is ESTJ And he is REALLY a good boyfriend, I really appreciate him and what he does. I love him and care about him SO MUCH. But I have a question... If you have time, please be kind and tell me XD ... I and my...
  18. [INFJ] Putting up walls (an INFJ problem?)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi all :) I have a lot of trouble trying to open up with people. While I get along with almost everyone and have a good number of friends, I'e never been able to be my complete self with them. It never used to bother me much as I felt like that was part of the social norm, but I've started to...
  19. [ENTP] ENTPs and critical thinking

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hey there, ENTPs. I don't know many ENTPs irl (I just know of one, really) but after spying around the forums it seems like ENTPs in general are pretty good at critical thinking. It seems like they often question what's being said and they seem prone to skepticism - but even when they agree...
  20. [ESTJ] How to win back the trust of an ESTJ ex-boyfriend?!?!?!?!?!?

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    2 weeks ago, my estj boyfriend broke up with me after a HUGE fight, citing the reason that I had hurt him so much throughout the course of the relationship (i tend to say hurtful words during fights) till he can't trust me anymore. he said that he would never get back together with me again...