When Ive found out that my type was INFP type 4w5, I was on the search to find others similar to me. I came across many pages describing this type as possessing an ability to feel extreme emotions, most notably extreme emotional pain. Then I found out that a lot of people with this personality...

Hello, I have been wondering lately the affects of adverse childhood experiences on the personality. If one is born with their enneagram type, does this affect their reaction to these experiences, or does the experience shape their personality or warp their perception of it? I have recently...

so, this guy has expressed quite a bit of interest in me. he has actively pursued talking to me and hanging out with me. as it turns out, he has taken the mbti test before, which said he is an infp. unlike me, he is an enneagram nine, while i am a four. despite that difference, i think if i were...

Below is a long tale of my legnthy journey coming to terms with my type 4 unhealthy responses to both healthy and unhealthy type 9-leadership. I was recently introduced to the Enneagram and have been exploding with insights, many of them perhaps pure bullshit! I don't expect any of you will make...

Hello Everyone, I am a 4w5 on the Enneagram Type and for the Myers-Briggs Type, I get results that vary between INFP and INTJ. I am currently in a relationship with an 8w7 and boy, it's been a roller-coaster trying to figure him out, or better yet, trying to get him to figure ME out! However...

As a four, I feel everything to the extreme. Whether it's positive or negative. Listening to music or watching a film that moves me, reading literature and quotes can get me choked up. Getting drunk and having deep conversations with friends, holding my partner, etc etc. If I sense abandonment...

I've been doing a lot more reading recently about the Enneagram in general, and am starting to confuse myself somewhat. I've taken several tests, and I always turn up a 4w5, strongly. In many ways, this does feel like the right fit for me, and I resonate with a lot of it. Although there's...

I am not sure if this type of thread has been made or not but I thought it would be useful for anybody who is a subtype 4w5 or 4w3 with their respective instinctual variant to vote on the poll which one you are and discuss a little about how you figured out your type, any problems that you have...

Hey, guys! (: So, I've known for a while that I'm a 4w5, but I took a tritype test last night, and I believe myself to be a 479. Trouble is, I know nothing about what that means. All the tritype description pages I can find only say really vague things, like, "479 is a gentle soul." Like...

Just learned about enneagram recently. Took many tests and I think I'm type 4w5. Anyway, I have also recently diagnosed myself to have a borderline personality disorder. Now I'm just wondering if it's my bpd that contributed to the type 4w5 result? I have always had relationship problems with...

It's been a month since I discovered enneagram. I've been reading a lot about type 4 and type 5 (especially here, on personality cafe) and I really can't find out which type I am. If you people could help me with some questions I should ask myself to find out who I am or with some comparsion...

I'm a 4w5. I've always had passions, but I have no idea what to do with them. I love acting. I love singing. I love writing. I love filming. I love reading. I love designing. I love travelling. I love composing. And I want to do them all.... The problem is... I have no desire to do them in a...

Hello! 30 year old Femme INFP, type 4w5. Australian. Artistic. Loving. Wibbly. ^_^ Please to meetcha! I feel everything, I analyse everything. I get sad. I over think. But I damn well love everything. I am arty, but highly unmotivated. The world in my head is too tricky to represent with my...

*walks down from his dark secretive tower* <---his room lol *the massive black gates which bar the way to his sanctum open with a spine chilling metallic screech* <--there is a sign on it saying (DnD...<.<....>.> unless you bring food lmao) *a dark figure steps forth...with a modded PC case...