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  1. [INFJ] do INFJs always feel misunderstood? what if someone knew you really well?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    so, I'm an ESFJ. My best friend is an INFJ. I can easily understand her, more than she knows. But I've been seeing a lot of posts from INFJs saying that they felt like nobody really 'got' them. The thing is, would an INFJ feel like nobody understands them even if there was somebody really...
  2. [ENFP] Is manipulating a bad thing?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I keep reading things about how manipulating people is really bad and against our set of values and all that. But for me, I don't consider it a bad thing. And all the descriptions of "an enfp gone wrong" describe me pretty well but I consider myself a pretty good person. Also, I don't have a...
  3. [INFJ] So they say we're good at reading people...

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Ever have the people around you take COMPLETE advantage of that to the point where it drives you mad? Let me explain. I don't TELL people I read them well or I know what they're thinking. By some reason people eventually learn to EXPECT this from me. I must always know what they're thinking and...
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