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unrequited love

  1. Advice Center
    Hi guys, So, a conundrum. Basically, I'm either ridiculously obsessed with this girl in a platonic way (gal pals, yay!) or, I'm hopelessly in love with her. Neither of these situations are ideal, considering a) she's straight, b) she has a boyfriend (who I like and respect very much...
  2. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi ISFJs (I hope everyone is having a wonderful fall so far) I'm an ESFP who is crushing badly on an ISFJ (warm, wonderful, generous, sweet guy). How we met: Tinder > hooked up once > kept in touch via text > 2 years later, we began hanging out after he just broke up with his boyfriend. How...
  3. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    ISFJ being honest with me (ESFP)? Hi ISFJs (I hope everyone is having a wonderful fall so far) I'm an ESFP who is crushing badly on an ISFJ (warm, wonderful, generous, sweet guy). How we met: Tinder > hooked up once > kept in touch via text > 2 years later, we began hanging out after he just...
  4. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So I never wanted to do this on PerC, since so many of the posts here are like this. INTPs are the pre-hipster hipsters. So hipster that we don't even conform to hipster norms (note, I'm just a doofy INTP, not a hipster) so the fact that relationship threads were common made me not want to post...
  5. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    For the record, I'm a Male INFP type 6 (and as much as I hate to say it, probably w7 *sigh*) The Problem Many of you can probably crushed on somebody at one time or another. You encourage yourself to tell that somebody how you feel because you can't bare to hold it in any longer. She (or he...
  6. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is going to be a long story, so settle in and sit tight. Ultimately, yes, this is me asking for personal "relationship" advice (if you could really call it that when I'm not in a relationship). First off, a little background about myself: I'm an INFJ and HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) with...
  7. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    This is going to be a long story, so settle in and sit tight. Ultimately, yes, this is me asking for personal "relationship" advice (if you could really call it that when I'm not in a relationship). First off, a little background about myself: I'm an INFJ and HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) with...
  8. Sex and Relationships
    When we fail in a relationship or the person you loved cannot return your affections, we still sometimes have a degree of affections left out in us. For this discussion, let us consider the scenario of unrequited love and when the reasons for the unfulfilled expectations are events beyond your...
  9. Sex and Relationships
    "Unrequited love" versus "Infatuation" . . . Is there a difference? Are they the same? What are your thoughts? Please feel free to add your type, quotes, stories, advices, etc., whatever you'd like. From what I've noticed, some people view both as similar in that either disposition is an...
  10. Sex and Relationships
    Seeing that this thread has not been started yet (or I must have missed any threads concerning this topic in the Sex and Relationships forum), I took it upon myself to start it. I'm sure plenty of people have experienced this at some point in their life. Though, of course, some people are...
  11. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Although I would most specifically like to know about INFPs on this topic, I'd love to hear from anybody ^_^ I was reading this article: The INFP and UNrequited Love And, well. Every love I've had for the past few years has been completely unrequited. Sometimes it lasts for months... hoping...
  12. Blog
    Even though life feels much better, there's something I just lately had to cope with. Maybe some of you are familiar with situations where you're counseling someone, get too comfortable with that person and that person with you, and at some point you fall in love? Well, that is what exactly...
  13. Myers Briggs Forum
    I remember taking a Myers-Briggs test in my AP Psychology class in high school, scoring, and then brushing it aside. Perhaps it had been finals week, or maybe I was just too stuck in my teenage daydreams to probe further. Recently, though, I've encountered a fascinating INTJ gentleman, who also...
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