A pattern I notice:
1. Behave like victim
2. Empathize with victim
3. Get the sense that I seem too clingy/ smothery
4. Get asked the question, "Why do you like me?" by victim
Is that just me? :shocked:
My ISTP boyfriend and I are long-distance, but today (Valentine's Day) he surprised me with an e-mail of a gift certificate for a massage at a spa near where I live.
His explanation after I thanked him: "I didn't want to send flowers again, and you always say your back hurts, and I can't fix...
Alright, guys. I have something to say. I have a problem, but I don't really know if I'm asking for a solution as much as I'm asking for a discussion revolving around my problem.
Well, I have a friend who is an ISTP.
He seems to be heavily interested in me.
Today, he surprised me with candy.
Hey Gentlemen, so I really need your help. I really want to confess to a special male INTJ that I like him on Valentine's Day next week. I want to hear your input, and whether or not you think it's worthwhile.
So I think this shy INTJ likes me but I'm not really sure, let's call him A. Anyway...