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  1. Notebook Entry - Dec 21 2016 - Sounds, Now, Like an Authenticity Rant xD

    My husband and I were talking about me and F/T. He's ESFj, and the look on his face about my being a feeler, let's just say, he looks disgusted that I would put any energy into that possibility. I need my energy to go elsewhere, i.e. into meditation, reading on mythology...
  2. [ESFJ] On confirmation and validation

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Fellow ESFJ here, I had recently noticed that I seek confirmation and validation from my partner. We are at his parents right now and so being someone who has anxiety issues among other things I guess my needs were too much for him. Nevermind the fact that: 1. I'm in a state I've only visited...
  3. "Barrier" (Poem)

    Release me from the iron grip Of things that show no mercy I have staggered my way through your desert Exhausted, sad, and thirsty You and I will never feel the same on things You in your world and I in mine But at least be happy for me For withstanding the test of time Though you don't always...
  4. [INTP] Things I'm Good At

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Self Validation thread. Yes, that's right. Aside from analysis, what are you good at? "Not much" and "nothing" are not allowed. Things like "procrastination" and "being arrogant" also not allowed. ie. Not This: "I am good at {Not Being Something, Not Doing Something, Not Being Enough, Not...
  5. [INFP] validation

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    hey people. does this sound familiar. you know how it should be in theory, you know you should put yourself first, love yourself before being able to love others and all that jazz, yet you keep seeking out validation from others, especially loved ones. even though you realize you shouldn't...