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  1. A fresh start. Type me.

    What's my Enneagram type?
    What is your main, general goal in life? I like to be successful and competent so I don't need to suffer. When I'm not suffering, my imaginations make me satisfied and I become more confident. I also like to influence people that way. But I may like some short-term pleasures to get satisfied...
  2. [Enneagram Type 7] 7s, what are your top priorities and values?

    Type 7 Forum - The Enthusiast
    By that, I mean: what is most important to you about the life you want to live, or the person you want to be? What kinds of principles, values, traits are most important to you as you design the person that you become each day? What are the overarching themes that seem to rule over your actions...
  3. I feel more lonely when I'm around people, even when I'm around people I love.

    Advice Center
    I can no longer be myself with people. It makes me feel even lonelier and I end up crying, so I stand apathetic.
  4. [Enneagram Type 1] Grudges, forgiveness, revenge

    Type 1 Forum - The Reformer
    How long do you tend to hold grudges for? Is forgiveness plausible most of the time? And the fun part: revenge. I'm the type of person who's pretty relaxed and it's very hard to push my buttons. But once you do, i basically erupt and either you get one warning or you get kicked out of my life...
  5. Fi or Ti?

    Cognitive Functions
    If someone has strong values and often justifies his/her actions by saying they made such decisions because they believe it was in line with their values, would they be using Fi because they are acting on their own values? Or would they be using Ti because they give their own personal reason for...
  6. A question on values...

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Curious to hear your thoughts. Do you think you can understand the value in something if you can't understand the logic behind it?
  7. Age and Other Circumstances Do Make a Big Difference For Our Choices

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  8. [ENFP] What are your core values?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi everyone! SO I’ve had a set of core values that mean a lot to me for many years, and I’m learning about our interesting ENFP relationship with our Fi and our values... So what are YOUR core values? i’m curious. Mine are mainly, I think, * Pacifism: non-conflict * Everyone’s viewpoint is a...
  9. [INTJ] What do INTJs value in a romantic partner?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Curious about the general consensus.
  10. My values system is crumbling - What NOW?

    Sex and Relationships
    1) Has anyone here undergone a serious blow to the foundation of their values? 1a) And then had to rebuild their values through experimentation and trying new experiences that you completely wrote off as either wrong or not for you? Personally, I'm undergoing an intense tranformation at the...
  11. [ENFJ] Let's talk career paths and values

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hey folks, I recently realized I'm actually an ENFJ and not an INFJ (common mistake, I've heard). Glad to join this community and to start a conversation around careers and values. I am trying to determine if we truly have something in common when it comes to our career choices and the steps...
  12. [INFP] Are You Prideful And Prejudiced Against The SJs?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I am not prideful and prejudiced when it comes to the SJs, the Guardians, the Protectors, or what ever you want to call them. Really I'm not. They have so many valuable qualities. They have logistical extraordinaire, are safety experts, gurus of social acceptability, and many other things. Its...
  13. Fi vs Fe

    Cognitive Functions
    Fe - Wants people to like them even if that means allowing people to have an inaccurate perception of who they are as an individual. Fi - Wants people to have an accurate perception of their individuality, regardless of what people think about that. Fi - Wants people to view them as they view...
  14. [INTJ] INFP INTJ Relationship Advice Needed! Value Systems Clashing!

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Post deleted. Too personal.
  15. [INFP] How to fix a broken Fi?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey everyone, I've recently re-typed INFP from ENFP, and so, I feel this is the proper community to seek out help from. I believe i'm dealing with a extremely underdeveloped Fi, slinging myself into a perpetual Fi--Si loop. I struggle daily with extreme anxiety, OCD/Avoidant type behaviors...
  16. (Fi)I am without values

    Cognitive Functions
    Everyone else has values, they are great socialists or feminists or Christians or this or that. My workplace present values which we are to adhere to. Doing so we achieve better results, and gain team spirit, they intend, probably. Values seem like an open market, oh how good it must be to be...
  17. MBTI and Ethics

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hey guys, I'm curious to see the correlation between ethics and MBTI. It's a 30 question test that you can complete in under 10 minutes. Here it is: Integrity and Work Ethics Test When you're done, your result will appear as a bar with a figure up to 100. I'm also creating a poll in which...
  18. [INFP] Your reasons for choosing your political movement or ideology?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    What are your reasons or reasons in life for your chosen political alignment or ideology? How did you find it was for you? My story or short story of how I became involved in my current aligned movement and ideology: I'm a type 6w7 Turbulent Variant INFP and happen to be loyal to the Socialist...
  19. [Enneagram Type 5] 5w4 INTP and INFP - How much do your values influence you?

    Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    Hello fellow 5w4's, I would like to know if you have values due to your 4 wing and if yes, how much do your values influence your decisions? How much do you want to stay true to your values? Can you act against them? How strong is your 4 wing and what does it do? I guess a dominant Fi...