For so long now I've had this "vision" of what I want my life to be. This vision has been so persistent and vivid it sometimes feels like its all waiting for me rite outside a little window but which of course its not.. Then when my attention shifts back to reality and I see what I have is...

Do you ever have the tendency to not know that you're feeling deep feelings for someone until you've inadvertently hurt them by saying there wasn't a connection (when there was. we talked every day and had been physical after a revelation of feelings), there was an emotional ending to your...

Here's what you need to know about your MBTI I've written this in lots of different posts here and there, but maybe I'll just throw this up here and see what everybody thinks. Your MBTI is based on how you prefer to interact with your environment, and how you see yourself. That's all. It...

Take my advice: never take nobody's advice. Because people like to give advice, which if you take their advice, will ensure that you end up just like they did. A paradox, I know. Though it doesn't look very helpful it probably is. Just decide things on your own. Awk, I did it again!

I don't think everyone is born with a sense of God; however, I do believe that most every human being (barring severely brain-damaged and such) are born with potentialities, many of which will not become apparent until the infant becomes capable of reason, of give-and-take and...

Dating Q: I'm not great at the advice, can I interest you in a sarcastic comment? So, hi, I'm new here. I'm not familiar with the functions, but was so relieved/content to discover I was an INFJ a few years ago. So much to discover, such a relief to know there’s a reason why for so many things...

I decided to write a poem about the true nature of sin. Many people come to learn about sin through organized religion or through the enneagram. But in order to understand sin, you actually have to experience and overcome it yourself. Because that is the deception of sin, it tricks you into...

Hello PCafe Family!! :) I have had some relationship drama for the past 6 months, which has been the majority of my college year... so I turn to my fellow Personality Theorists who will understand! I am an INFP, who from others peoples points of view, seems to be and ENFP! I am very social, go...

I am old enough that you would think I'd have this completely figured out. There are times that I don't speak up when I should have, and there are definitely occasions when I would like to have my words back. Sometimes I spend so much time trying to figure out whether I should or shouldn't...

Anonymous asked: My friends constantly say that I'm "full of mysteries" and quite frankly, I don't know what they're talking about. I don't think I intentionally hide things from them, or act mysterious in any way. And this is coming from friends who have known me for some time. I've read that...

INFP here. For some reason, I just attract you people. I have no idea how or why. For friendship, and now relationships. I really admire you guys and can feel completely in tune with you. Well, at least the ones I've known. I've seen you guys stereotyped as robots, but I've actually never...

I desire to become my highest self. I am seeking wisdom on how to go about doing this. What does that look like? How do I approach realizing this idealized self? Should I develop myself to become more balanced? More disciplined? Better at implementation? Should I actually follow through with...

Vacant, steel blue eyes The reign of the moon casts tranquilizer upon the land Warm radiation of love devours the cancerous growths of hate Harness the power of dreams to exterminate the nightmare Navigate the shadowy slums and suburbs with the light of insight A flash of hope in every...