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  1. Is gender and sex the same thing?

    Member Polls
    It's a poll about language, and what is the most common understanding in the usage of those terms. I'm obviously concerned by this question as I'm trans, and I'm a proponent of a dissociation between gender and sex. But because I know that in english those words tend to be interchangeable...
  2. [ISTJ] How do you recognize an ISTJ male in the crowd?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hi everyone, I am an INTJ woman and I was wondering how do you describe ISTJ males? I know someone and I can't decide if he is an INTJ or ISTJ, seems both, but I want to know. I barely know him - I know him from church, so I don't want to ask him, yet. Are there any small details that would...
  3. INTJ woman asking ENTJ men stuff

    Sex and Relationships
    This is a more complex question: Are any ENTJ man - INTJ woman happy couples out there? Are ENTJ men always confident when it comes about relationships, can they be shy or simply afraid of commitment? And if so, why? When do ENTJ men manipulate people, do they manipulate even the people they love?
  4. I'm new, hello hello!

    Sooo my welcome email told me I should make a post to introduce myself and I thought hey, why the hell not? Casual side note, I'm just going to say that seeing "MSN Messenger Handle" and "AIM Screen Name" tabs in the profile editing options brought me back man, I'd almost forgotten about those...
  5. Women, Men, and Facial Hair

    Sex and Relationships
    What are you? What is your facial hair status? How do you feel about your facial hair status? What do you find attractive about other people specifically on the subject of facial hair and why? I am Sexually a Man with no Non-Physical Gender. I have a fully grown natural beard. I like my...
  6. [INFP] Why does she do this?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello all, fairly new to the forums but I've been somewhat familiar with the MBTI for some time now. I met someone that I'm interested in and am trying to figure out something very specific about her, so I'm hoping somebody here could give me some much appreciated insight. As far as I can tell...
  7. [ISTP] ISTP: Did anyone ever tell you "you are old"? Why?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    So, i was thinking about this. It's not about looking physically older than you actually are i don't care about that, it's about looking older because of... behavior, i guess. Did anybody ever tell you you look old, maybe that you have an old soul? Did you ask them why? Do you have any idea...
  8. On the Phone...Men Please Explain the Significance?

    Sex and Relationships
    If during a relatively short phone conversation between two new acquaintances, a man clears his throat several times (but when asked laughs and says no, he does not have a cold or sinus issue :) does this infer any mind/body connection? Nervousness, desire or anything else, in your male...
  9. A tiny Swedish INFP!

    Hey! I'm new to this forum and just wanted to introduce myself (I usually never participate in forums, so this is hard!) I just recently found out that I was an INFP after believing I was INTP for the longest time. I'm a 20 year old art student from Sweden. I've read a couple threads and I can...
  10. [ISFP] ISFP Women: I could use some advice.

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    ISFP Women: You're all gorgeous and sweet. I could use some advice. do you like to be given poems? even by someone you've met recently? I think I would, but I really like to be flattered.
  11. [INFP] Being an introverted female (hate using that term female)

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    :proud: 1. Let's talk about the issues some of us may have have with being introverted and female, and the pressure on women to be more extroverted, chatty. 2. The modern notion of being extroverted, always social as more feminine. 3. The benefits of being introverted and women... 4. The...
  12. new ESTJ female present :)

    Hello everyone :) just stopping by to greet you all and to introduce myself! i'm Astrid I'm a borderline ESTJ/ESFJ and ready to make some new friends! :) for any questions feel free to ask! have a lovely day guys :))
  13. G'Day INTP from DownUnder

    Hello. I've been browsing PersonalityCafe for a while now, ever since I found out that I'm a massively uncommon female INTP personality type who always wondered why everything and everyone seemed to be far-fetched and utterly insane. Coming onto this site and reading about other INTPs has made...
  14. [ISFP] ISFP in a relationship with another ISFP?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I haven't seen a lot of stuff on here about what happens when two ISFPs are in a relationship. Does it work? What are some problems? Does anyone have any examples of someone they know like this? Are you in one yourself? What are the benefits? I always seem to be most attracted to guys who are...
  15. [INTP] INTP Females: The Post Apocalypse Relationship Duct Tape

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    This thread is intended for INTP females to respond to: When you break up with people (whichever way that goes), what do the remnants look like? . Are you left in tact, are your ex-partners? (In tact, as in emotionally. Some people react to breakups in extreme ways and lose it or disconnect...
  16. You Know You're an INTP Girl When..

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Are there any behaviors you can associate with not only your INTP type but also girlness, or lack thereof?
  17. [INTP] To all INTPs or people who have trouble with socializing

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    If you know enneagram I'm a 5w6, 3w4, 9w1-makes me feel quite weird from everyone else but I'm moving towards the healthier levels and life feels more natural. Enjoy my ranting of what I've learned which I hope will help others who were in the same spot I was. Please ignore my grammar and that...
  18. [ISFP] Epic: Is the forward movement of society negotiated through the lifespans of ISFPs?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I love this czech film "Valerie and Her Week of Wonders"! It’s about a receptive, earthy girl’s encounters with archetypal characters who infiltrate her experience as she becomes a woman. These ancient forces (of love, fear, sex, and religion) have very intentional motives and attempt to...
  19. Walt Whitman Poem: A Woman Waits For Me.

    Sex and Relationships
    Walt Whitman on sex: A Woman Waits For Me. I'm interested in your thoughts on this poem. Walt Whitman lived from 1819 - 1892. A Woman Waits For Me A woman waits for me--she contains all, nothing is lacking, Yet all were lacking, if sex were lacking, or if the moisture of the right man were...