Gaslighting is unacceptable. Anyone who trys to gaslights you, does not deserve your attention.
But some people are literally not competent at certian tasks. So how does one say that witbout it being gaslighting? Its like calling someone retarded. Some people are suffering from retardation. If someone says "Jimmy is gonna have problems with said task becuase he suffers from "retardation" thats a fact. If gaslighting is pionting out facts than like how does one piont out facts without gaslighting. I thought gaslighting was making you think untrue things.
As in one can be competent or not competent at something. Its not really an insult its an assesment. If someone is trained in say tennis and challenge someone who never played a single sport it would be accurate to say that the trained person is more competent.
I see, I know it's not an insult, I understand your feelings
