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It seems there are a lot of us here. I'm Revenwyn, or at least that's been my online name for quite some time. I'm married to an ENFP, and also have the love of a wonderful INTP guy. I've known and loved the INTP longer than the ENFP (it's a long story, one involving parental disapproval and forbidding to contact each other... stupid homeschool parents.)

I am polyamorous. Once my love is given to someone I cannot take it back, and that's how I ended up with my INTP love and my ENFP husband. I found out that the INTP was alive (his parents had told me he was dead, and told him that I was dead in return) after I was already married. My ENFP husband understands this and is fine with it as long as the relationship does not turn physical. As the INTP is in another state, there is no possibility of this happening.

I love them both equally and they have different but necessary roles in my life. There is no question in my mind of leaving my ENFP husband for the other. While ideally I would want both with me this will do for now.
 

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It seems there are a lot of us here. I'm Revenwyn, or at least that's been my online name for quite some time. I'm married to an ENFP, and also have the love of a wonderful INTP guy. I've known and loved the INTP longer than the ENFP (it's a long story, one involving parental disapproval and forbidding to contact each other... stupid homeschool parents.)

I am polyamorous. Once my love is given to someone I cannot take it back, and that's how I ended up with my INTP love and my ENFP husband. I found out that the INTP was alive (his parents had told me he was dead, and told him that I was dead in return) after I was already married. My ENFP husband understands this and is fine with it as long as the relationship does not turn physical. As the INTP is in another state, there is no possibility of this happening.

I love them both equally and they have different but necessary roles in my life. There is no question in my mind of leaving my ENFP husband for the other. While ideally I would want both with me this will do for now.
Welcome to the forum. That is an interesting story. You may be happy with the long-distance relationship, but, if there is no possibility of a physical connection between you and the INTP guy, then it may not last long for him. How will you respond when he finds another girl in his same neighborhood and decides to let you go?
 

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Welcome to the forum. That is an interesting story. You may be happy with the long-distance relationship, but, if there is no possibility of a physical connection between you and the INTP guy, then it may not last long for him. How will you respond when he finds another girl in his same neighborhood and decides to let you go?
He is in a situation where that is not possible right now. We have also known each other for the past eighteen years and been in love with each other for the past fifteen.
 

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He is in a situation where that is not possible right now. We have also known each other for the past eighteen years and been in love with each other for the past fifteen.
I imagine it is a difficult thing for him. You are getting the physical love, but not him.
 

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Haha no I'm not getting the physical love either. My husband is autistic and can hardly ever be touched.
I didn't know that "don't touch" follows from autism. It must be weird having two men love you but no physical intimacy! Have you thought about writing a book on this?
 
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