Logic is indifferent to public relations.Owow, :3 we have awaken the bringers of some of the most misogynistic ideologies in here, so predictable...
The education sector leans strongly to the left, and a strong ideological bias in schools is likely to affect what content is selected and the manner in which it is taught to pupils. You simply do not notice the many biases that are in your favour.I even heard through some quotes that feminists were at the direction of schools. Well, I would like that, we need also to have more LGBTQIA+ representation and discussion about those subjects within schools, that would be great. And well, anti-racism and anti-validism also.
But what gender expectations are you talking about? The only one you've mentioned is allowing men to cry without judgement by women. (This particular "expectation" is actually not traditional at all and only began c. 1850.) Beyond that, it's not clear what you want to abolish which makes it hard for me to form an opinion.But sadly, it isn't coming soon... still gender expectations should be abolished, and yes men should learn to speak about their emotions more freely, we're seeing the exact consequences of gender binary, here, men and women supposed to be the opposite. It's like if in the head of those people, women were another species. When you have to come to this kind of thoughts, you just completely missed what a society is about.
What do you mean by "forcing desire"? Do you mean to say that men who merely approach women with sexual interest are somehow forcing themselves upon the latter? This implies that women are passive objects who cannot refuse an unwanted advance or tell the difference between dirty talk and attempted rape. So much for "strong and independent".And I would add that a lot spoke like if hetero was the only way, try to think this through if you were homosexual. You will soon notice that those misogynistic ideologies, imagining men and women like in a war of attractiveness (but actually, it's just men forcing their desire in women throat at this point, like they never did that in the past, or leaving us alone... yeah... cool), representing a world were women are together on one side, and men are together on the other side. That sound really homosexual to me. Those ideologies are just boys club were they speak about sex, their sex and the irrepressible desire to have sex. And I can say that those homosexual spaces are actually very homophobic. And then we're asked to feel sorry for those people? They isolate themselves, then cry for they lack of desirability and attractiveness.
Nobody here is calling you ugly or implying that all lesbians (or even feminists) are ugly. I should warn you that while subsuming your own identity into that of ideology may be comforting, it greatly restricts your ability to be a unique individual with your own story to tell.Feminists and lesbians got this homophobic and misogynistic stigma that we're ugly, we're those because we can't get laid by men. Let's make things clear, this isn't the case, while in those adverse ideologies, they're always speaking and shaming themselves. Do you see the difference, LGBT+ pride, feminism, empowering? They don't empower themselves, they're weakening themselves, together as a group, and then you'll hear them about being responsible individuals, having to deal with your own problem, but the group is their problem, not them as individuals. While for feminists and LGBT+, the group is empowering us, we're getting stronger because the movement is about that.
You are not obligated to feel sorry for anyone, but showing others grace and rejecting spite is vital if you wish to be happy. You should notice an irony in that many of the people you criticize are much like you: they are unhappy, feel unwanted by the majority and sublimate their identity into ideology as a coping mechanism. While they may have come to a different conclusion, their process is similar. I hope that this insight will make you more compassionate. If you genuinely want to help (as opposed to just virtue signalling), befriend someone who disagrees with you.So we don't have to feel sorry for those people, they just have to leave those groups, deradicalization have to happen, but sorry, I have enough social issues, including patriarchy, so men keeping power, before putting ressources to deradicalize them. This job is on you, men, you know better on those issues. When you see them popping out on a forum, take them apart, think how you can help them to stop the delusions they got into. But just don't make us responsible or sorry for them.