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I am a 2 (An ENFP? A 2? Why I never. /sarcasm) with a 3 wing, and quite new to this Enneagram business.
Though I can agree with a good chunk of the 2w3 description, my general want to give to people is truly out of wishes for them to be happy. It's always good to be thought of as kind, but it's even better to see someone else smile.
Also, there's this backlash against 2w3's and their abilities to be in a relationship of any sort. What's with that? Everyone's prone to being unhealthy from time to time, but I've never gone in to "stalker/obsession" mode. That just sounds awful and ruins everything for anyone involved. If I feel any type of bitterness towards anyone, I just tell them for the benefit of both of us. No one deserves to be secretly loathed, and if something isn't working out, why not just end it? Everyone deserves to be happy, and an unhealthy relationship is no way to do that.
Sorry for this rant, I'm just so massively confused. It just seems like we're kind of the villains of the Enneagram.
Though I can agree with a good chunk of the 2w3 description, my general want to give to people is truly out of wishes for them to be happy. It's always good to be thought of as kind, but it's even better to see someone else smile.
Also, there's this backlash against 2w3's and their abilities to be in a relationship of any sort. What's with that? Everyone's prone to being unhealthy from time to time, but I've never gone in to "stalker/obsession" mode. That just sounds awful and ruins everything for anyone involved. If I feel any type of bitterness towards anyone, I just tell them for the benefit of both of us. No one deserves to be secretly loathed, and if something isn't working out, why not just end it? Everyone deserves to be happy, and an unhealthy relationship is no way to do that.
Sorry for this rant, I'm just so massively confused. It just seems like we're kind of the villains of the Enneagram.