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I think thats it's different for all the 3's, but as far as I'm concerned I obviously like 3's qualities like ambition, determination, and self-confidence on other persons. And I don't know if it's because I'm maybe more 3w4, but I really like authentic and original persons, people who isn't affraid by don't go with the flow if you know what I mean... Fun is also a very important thing ! ;p
 

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I'm attracted to a variety of people for a variety of reasons. Are you thinking of sexual attraction here, or all types of attractions?

So far I haven't met a 3, online or RL that I haven't liked on some level.
 

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I'm 3w4.

Il prefer authentic people. Especially people who say out loud what they think (even if it's hard).
The type of people I dislike a lot are :

- people who always complain and are never responsible for what they do so never work to improve
- "Sheeps" in groups (people who are under someone lead even if they don't like it), same for people who defend movies/etc. by saying "all specialists say it's good so it's good" (same idea)
 

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Look at my avatars and you will have found your answer.

Seriously, I find 4's very attractive.
 

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I don't care about enneagram type, I just want someone who's handsome, works hard, and is respectful towards other people and me as well.
 

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First impression wise, I don't like overly friendly, smiley, 'cute' guys who are nice to everyone, I could never find someone like that attractive no matter how hot they looked.
When it comes to relationships, what matters to me the most is that I'm important to them, that's why I tend to dislike So instinct paired with some types, it feels like so many people care about too many things and people to really care about anything and I don't like that in relationships.
 
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I've always thought that those self-confident, competitive people are really fun to be around and I guess I'm kinda attracted to them. Could be because I'm like that myself, dunno. But I also really like people who's shy because it's fun to be one of the few people who they open up to and show their weird, spontaneous, "true" side. I just like people who's kind of like an adventure.
I've never been in a relationship, though, because I've never been in love, so I can't really say anything there. And I've never really spoken with another 3.
 

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Other 3s are awesome. Even if it's another MBTI type that I generally dont get along with, being a 3 changes all that. We just seem to have so much in common, even if we really don't have anything in common. That being said, the two main types of people I really like apart from 3s are:

- The really dorky, awkward people who are trying their best, even if they're not really getting anywhere
- The overly confident, slightly bonkers people who don't let anything stand in their way.

Which seem like 3 traits anyway now that I come to think of it. But if I see someone like that, it's instant mutual attraction. It's like 3s have this built-in thing that lets them pick out other 3s so we can all live together in a world where great things are achieved. :D
 

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guys who are chill and calm, with a nurturing vibe. i'm currently very attracted to a 9w1. It is said that 9's and 3's are a common pairing: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/enneagram-type-3-type-9/

Or type 5's. My best friend is a 5w4, and is very knowledgeable and quirky. The kind of voice that talks me down when my thinking goes too out of place, slapping some sense back into me, or who recommends me a good book or two to better understand a situation and encourages me to look at things objectively. (It helps that i've got 5 in my enneagram tritype) :kitteh:
 
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