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#1 ·
how do you have fun, without disintegrating to 7?

i just find it very hard to differentiate when im getting into the zone of obsession.
 
#2 ·
There are a few keys to my mind:

1. Am I becoming scattered? If I maintain my focus, chances are I'm not disintegrating.

2. Am I becoming gluttonous? If not, then I'm not really 7-like.

3. Do I have a fear of pain? If not, then I'm avoiding 7-like stuff.

I look for clues as generally the disintegration is under stress and not under fun.
 
#5 ·
well im quite definately certain, that ive been acting on my 4w3 fix the past few years, so its quite accurate, although not the same as a core 4w3.

currently, 5w4 seems to describe best the way i was before flipping crazy. and the 7 disintegration, mania, is quite exactly what happened to me.
 
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