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The dilemma now is that if I give you the answer I wrote, I would be rewarding you for poor behavior and that's just wrong.
 

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Asphyxiation is cool, most girls dig it if you start light. Spanking/biting/nails is pretty much a given and I'm rarely gentle while "manoeuvring" the other party. Tied up (both ways) a few times: quite like the girl in charge in that situation. Never done anything outrageous, although I'd certainly like to; never been in a relationship(?) long enough to get the big guns out. Looking forward to exploring this in more depth once I track someone down who's worth the time.
Strappado is a good way to bridge casual with more "hardcore" kink. It's in essence a stress position added to just tying someone up. You need to be careful and know what you're doing though. It just requires typical stuff everyone has in their bedroom, some rope or chains, handcuffs/bondage tape, and suspension hooks in the ceiling.
 
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Vellyon, do not attempt to pull that one out until you are in a trusting long term relationship, even the most masochistic Twilight/50 shades fan will run screaming... chicks lured with candy, roofies and coke do not count as trusting submissive partners. @Scelerat
I'm not sure if you're agreeing or disagreeing with me. The reason I referred to it as a "bridge" is that it assumes you've gone through an evolution with a partner where very solid trust is established and experience has been gained. It's not something you break out on a first date.
 
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I did not see the word bridge. Agreeing this time. Once. savor it.
You should get used to it, I make a lot of sense and say a lot of intelligent things. If you'll excuse me I have a random hook up that I'm doing some Japanese suspension bondage with :p

I confess I saw the word "strappado" and yea.. Se Fi Te Ni..see react..then think. My mind extrapolated to all of these green willing young men taking that advice.. Damn broken Te.
Don't worry I get it. An inexperienced dom with a most likely inexperienced sub, engaging in strappado after 5 - 6 drinks, for lengthy periods of time, is a recipe for disaster. I like the "would I be willing to play the role of sub for this" test for whether or not you should do something.
 
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So candy, roofies and coke DO work? .. have fun.
Never actually made a Roofie Cokelada but I would think they do. I just use my natural charm and whip.
 

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Yes but the emergency room would have a helluva story. Especially since that miscarriage to literature 50 shades came out.. oh how I wish they would write up those anecdotes.
twisted as fuck side>nurturing and worried about stupid young kids. wins this time.
I haven't actually read those books so I don't know the details, but I suspect it would lead to funny stories. I'd love to be a fly on the wall when the parents go into the hospital room of their 15 year old, sunday school daughter and find out how she dislocated both her shoulders.

I do expect that a lot of locksmiths have been called about people misplacing handcuff keys, but I also doubt that anything serious has happened since the audience for those books doesn't exactly seem like the adventurous type. I mean if they had any "real" interest they would read something like "The Story of O" or some de Sade.
 
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Only goldfish fall for the charm.. and neurotics the whip.. poor kids. Nurturing side wins this time.
Now that is an Fi statement if I ever saw one.
 
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