I have such a hard time working for "the man." Lol. I know it sounds cliché but seriously. I'm told to "tone it down" so I do, then I am told that I am too cold and to warm up, so I do, and then suddenly I am too loud and unprofessional. What the hell do these people want?! I keep finding myself resentful every time I am told to be different from who I am. It is so hard for me not to be direct and loud. I was finally told that I shine too bright and I need to "glimmer." What does that even mean? Be a shadow of myself? I don't think so! It feels inauthentic and like a lack of integrity. Anyone else have this problem or ideas on how to fix it?