Ive read that "the bear" 8w9 takes more of a defensive stand and if a fight is started they will gladly step in and finish it. This hits home to me as I have had to finish fights many times in my life, alot of them physically but I never go looking for fights and go on the offense unless its necessary or im in a bad or unhealthy mood. Sometimes its as if im daring anyone around me to show the slightest hint of disrespect so I can confront them. Its as if I try to appear weak sometimes just so I can do a 180 and really strike fear in someone. Its as if a cheetah were chasing a gazelle and as the cheetah was about to attack the gazelle turned into well... A bear. Hope Im not rambling I would just like to hear opinions on this behaviour. Have any 8w9s found better ways of maybe going on the offense in a healthy way?