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Ive read that "the bear" 8w9 takes more of a defensive stand and if a fight is started they will gladly step in and finish it. This hits home to me as I have had to finish fights many times in my life, alot of them physically but I never go looking for fights and go on the offense unless its necessary or im in a bad or unhealthy mood. Sometimes its as if im daring anyone around me to show the slightest hint of disrespect so I can confront them. Its as if I try to appear weak sometimes just so I can do a 180 and really strike fear in someone. Its as if a cheetah were chasing a gazelle and as the cheetah was about to attack the gazelle turned into well... A bear. Hope Im not rambling I would just like to hear opinions on this behaviour. Have any 8w9s found better ways of maybe going on the offense in a healthy way?
 

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I just couldnt let them know anything was bothering me because in my eyes they have won once they kno they got to me whether that was the intention or not and I couldnt allow that. Instead I play it off as no big deal because I know if push came to shove I can handle myself. Eventually though enough of me playing things off as no big deal becomes a big deal. It also could be many small things not even people related. Theres a certain point of no return when someone has been disrespectful and something just clicks when I am full force and will not stop until I find them and put an end to it by this point though all negotiations are irrelevant because im out for blood. Anger completely consumes me. Anyway I do agree about channeling my aggression into a sport or something. I just wish I had the time I guess I will just make time.
 

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Oh yes they definately knew before it became physical I had confronted them face to face twice and warned them to stop. That jusr fizzled and they kept on my next step was the physical one which I had clearly said I was going to do if it had persisted. I will warn people thay what they are doing I do not aopreciate and give them a clear response as to how I will take things to the next level if they persist. Some people just seem hellbent on ruining my good juju.
 
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