[Musician6120]

I'm sorry for the loss and what you had to experience as a witness. I can't help but wonder how the ex-wife feels now. There are few things that would make it worth keeping a parent from his/her children. And his kids...what they will feel as they get older and find out why this happened.

Insensitive people are not surprise, and being cynical, I'd still want to give them the benefit of the doubt, though if I saw the behavior first hand, not sure how I'd feel now.