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A question each for ISTP and ISTP women

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to women: have u ever approached a guy and initiated conversation with a guy that you were attracted to?

men: what would be your reaction to this?

this happened to me the other day. I was working on a set for a play in one of my theatre elective classes. I went to the 'green room' to get some coffee and one of the girls started talking to me. there arent many theatre majors and i notice they are a unique group of people. usually more outgoing and less socially blocked by social norms. They are easily able to be themselves. They're like louder artsy types...

Anyway a girl asked what my name and major was that day. Her friends/classmates were with her in the room when she said hi. She was a complete stranger. I didn't know how to react to this situation. It was completely unexpected. The girl was pretty good looking too. I may find her in the same spot tomorrow morning.
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Yeesh, how about this. Don't worry about your penis and her mouth. Try this thought on for size. Just talk back. Whatever happens to pop into your head. Even if it's something that is socially inappropriate, as long as it's genuine. You maaaay find some commonality. She might appreciate the thoughts in your head. It's called making friends. There is value to it.
And 8 times out of the 9 you don't want the ones that come back. The chicks that are attracted to people who treat them badly have issues. ;)
When this happens to me (common thing, gotta brag ya know) I just ignore, dismiss and/or behave like a dick.

9 times out of 10 they come back for more.
When yer eager, you shoot yourself in the foot.
Hahah @Duck_of_Death You'll get no argument from me there.

(shakes head)
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