Clearly you've forgotten my harem of ENFPs. And also that time I threatened make out with @lookslikeiwin when I thought she was me. @ethylene , @s2theizay and I probably have some kind of "if no one else asks us to prom" agreement...so why focus on my fondness for the dudes in particular? I blame the patriarchy. If I'm going to be accused of "fondness," I insist some of it be lesbian.Aw, you were talking about interesting people, and you do seem to have fondness for some of the dudes in INTP...I had no guesses, it just made sense to ask.
Depends on what kind of slut, probably. There's the rational slut who is like, "why the hell not?" And then there's the needy slut who craves affirmation from all and sundry. There are probably more varieties of slut, too.See this is the part I don't get, are sluts usually that likely to become ex sluts? From what I understand it's the opposite.
I only know about the rational kind. Once a rational slut gets an answer to the question, "why the hell not?" the sluttiness is done. It was never a character flaw, but a character opportunity. You miss out on a lot when you don't fuck people if you get anything out of fucking people (experience, entertainment, orgasm, etc.). So whatever keeps you from doing that had better be equal or better than what you're missing. Sometimes it is. Math again.
On the other hand, someone who defines themselves via their superspecial partner, well that's all great until you get into a lull. Now what happened to your self-definition? That's the part that I find scary about these "make it special" people. (Not you, just the imaginary guy I said I'd walk away from.) Now they need another superspecial partner.
Meanwhile, the rational slut can be all, "hey just give me a blowjob, will ya?" And things are okay still until whatever crisis passes. The same earthy approach to intimacy that made them a slut can be useful in not overreacting to the necessary ebbs and flows of relationship.
Though honestly, longevity wasn't the primary draw toward marrying a slut, even though it did figure in the decision to never marry a confirmed non-slut. The primary draw of sluts is that they're very experienced. And that rocks. Since (rational again) most relationships end statistically, if you can't say either way, choose the door that knows how to go down on you in a way you never thought of before.