Back in the day (which was approx. 2 years ago, but under a different name).... I joined the cafe in hopes of better understanding the love of my life... my INTJ husband. Bless his heart.
I myself have typed myself all over the place... I think I have been an ENFP, and INFP, and then various torturous tests later, an ISFJ, and ESFJ.... well. Okay.
I'm a bit type-impaired.
The only thing that ever held true on the tests was the F. I'm a damn good Feeler.
I like concrete answers. Although it would be perfectly okay with me if someone ELSE had a hard time figuring out their preference, that just wasn't good enough for me. I need to know.
So I decided to quit taking online tests because I'm the least consistent test-taker ever. (Possibly due to having a B.S. in psychology, I seem to screw up internal consistency. Always.)
Instead, I spent some time looking at each individual trait until I could decide between the two. The result is INFP. For now. Between there an an ISFP. I think we'll stick with that.