May I suggest a fleshlight?
Using the internet, we can create a dating INTJ community?:frustrating:
Certain people seem to use this subforum for that anyway. All you need to do is get in line.
Thats cheating ;0
No, the Ti lack of confidence in addition to our undying perfectionism when it comes to matters we deem to be 'very important' leaves us massively analyzing what we should be doing instead of actually doing it. My INTJ colleage at work has a very beautiful girlfriend and their relationship is going great.The forever alone meme is more of an intp phenomenon; the former is stuck in an infinite soul-searching loop, the latter doesn't believe it needs a body.
My INTJ colleage at work has a very beautiful girlfriend and their relationship is going great.
What Ti lacks is made up by Te balls.Considering him being...well, who he is, there may be hope for me yet.
I consider it 'life-hacks'. Nah, I have just enough pride not to do that, but it's always an option for others.
No, the Ti lack of confidence in addition to our undying perfectionism when it comes to matters we deem to be 'very important' leaves us massively analyzing what we should be doing instead of actually doing it. My INTJ colleage at work has a very beautiful girlfriend and their relationship is going great.
Considering him being...well, who he is, there may be hope for me yet.
... What is consider beautiful by your standards? What society and media define as beautiful, or is it a different sense of beauty such as the mind and heart? Either way, I would like to see how he came upon the courage to throw himself in public and to communicate with strangers? Online is different for me, since no one here knows me technically in person....
I personally find the whole concept of dating to be completely backwards.
As i see it: "Hey let's go on a date so we can see if we are compatible!"
Whereas I think it should be: "Hey we seem compatible, let's go on a date!"
But what do i know...
Thanks for setting me straight, but I thinking it was a valid idea with some potential. I wasn't actually aware that this has been going on.
Coupled with intj introversion, the total size of the pool of candidates is also smaller.
By beautiful, I meant aesthetically. She is really, REALLY happy, and optimistic, but I don't see any brains, then again, I don't know her all that well. And honestly, I don't know WHAT he did to get her, but he is INTJ alright. He is actually more outgoing than I am (in fact, he makes fun of me for it at work). I dunno. If you figure it out, remember the poor INTP neighbors who have it worse off than you do socially.![]()
By beautiful, I meant aesthetically. She is really, REALLY happy, and optimistic, but I don't see any brains, then again, I don't know her all that well. And honestly, I don't know WHAT he did to get her, but he is INTJ alright. He is actually more outgoing than I am (in fact, he makes fun of me for it at work). I dunno. If you figure it out, remember the poor INTP neighbors who have it worse off than you do socially.![]()
That was mostly sarcastic. I wouldn't recommend this method as it largely annoys people here (although there may have been a few lucky hits along the way, I have no idea).
How would one go about creating an INTJ dating service, anyway? Your second-largest problem would be mistyping, both unintentional and otherwise. Your first-largest problem would be the fact that it's possible most INTJs would be very skeptical of such a service and/or laugh outright. I don't like conventional methods of "dating" and certainly wouldn't participate in some sort of NTCupid.
. Any way, as INTP, how would you approach the situation? What kind of work do you do by the way, I am looking for internships at the university level. Good Luck with the love life!
If she were ENTJ, would that mean she would do the approaching? How would I go about attracting such a person? Someone doing the chasing is different....but considering my social skills or the lack thereof, it would take one huge load off of me.damn ENFP Achilles heel. You male INTPs need female ENTJs which unfortunately are poorly represented in the population.
Preaching to the choir, in my LIFE i have found...four girls whom i wanted to date, I dated one of them.
At least you made progress, I am still stuck at popping the question. "Will you like to spend time together?" In either case, I am working on confidence and self-esteem! What was your technique?
If she were ENTJ, would that mean she would do the approaching? How would I go about attracting such a person? Someone doing the chasing is different....but considering my social skills or the lack thereof, it would take one huge load off of me.