That just sounds like Fi/Te. Fi users aren't exactly obvious about what they feel. I think she's just a mature ESFP.ENTJ:"In my relationships I'm never very good at saying how I feel and talking about it, even if they are and they try and bring it out with me."
"I have absolutely no intention of going into acting or making perfumes. ... I will stick to what I am good at and not spread myself thin and become mediocre at everything I do."
"I'm a big personality. I walk into a room, big and tall and loud."
Sounds like a Te dom to me...