While I'm definitely a homebody, I also have a sense of adventure. I like to go out and do things, experience things. If i don't get out enough I get antsy. I have found that with my other introverted friends I have way more energy and sense of adventure than them. I'm always trying to push them to go out and do things with me. far to often it fails and I feel down.
and on the flip side, I have my E friends, and minus 1 of them I'm wouldn't consider any of them too close. They generally have way to much energy and sense of adventure than me. But I have a hard time contacting them and inviting them to do things with me. I'm not sure why, but that's just how I am.
So I find that I'm sitting all confused in the middle wondering what to do more often than not. I could go out with my "shallow E friends" who out do me in the energy deptartment and i feel drained after a while with them. though I used to live with many of them so I'm totally used to it. most of the draining comes in when they introduce/invite peeps i don't know or don't care for at all. OR i can try to get my I friends to actually get out an do something and drain myself of energy trying to convince them (in vain) to go out with me.
part of the problem is that while I do have a mega sense of adventure, I have a hard time going and and doing those things without someone. even though I spend the vast majority of my time alone. Looking at it from the outside it, it doesn't seem to make much sense.
I'm not sure the point of this thread. mainly just blabbing away.
can anyone else relate to this?
and on the flip side, I have my E friends, and minus 1 of them I'm wouldn't consider any of them too close. They generally have way to much energy and sense of adventure than me. But I have a hard time contacting them and inviting them to do things with me. I'm not sure why, but that's just how I am.
So I find that I'm sitting all confused in the middle wondering what to do more often than not. I could go out with my "shallow E friends" who out do me in the energy deptartment and i feel drained after a while with them. though I used to live with many of them so I'm totally used to it. most of the draining comes in when they introduce/invite peeps i don't know or don't care for at all. OR i can try to get my I friends to actually get out an do something and drain myself of energy trying to convince them (in vain) to go out with me.
part of the problem is that while I do have a mega sense of adventure, I have a hard time going and and doing those things without someone. even though I spend the vast majority of my time alone. Looking at it from the outside it, it doesn't seem to make much sense.
I'm not sure the point of this thread. mainly just blabbing away.
can anyone else relate to this?