well the title really says it all. i try so hard to help people as well as i can. but this is what happens to me quite a bit: i reach my hand out to help, and i get bitten. i feel like people try to take advantage of my help and hurt me, especially my best friend! she goes to me for many many things, but says how i dont know anything about her or what she goes thru and other better friends help her. am i just a scapegoat? what can i do!? do people even want my help? what am i doing wrong??!