Type 6 fits very well with ISTJ. Both are loyal, dependable, and "need to be needed", and take lots of steps for future security. 6w5, if I remember correctly, is constantly taking counter-measures to defend against the world, always in a state of vigilance. They're typically pretty well book-read. From what you describe, that sounds about right, but only you can decide that.
As for working with women... well, that may just be a male thing.
As for working with women... well, that may just be a male thing.