Hey guys, I was hoping you could help me figure out if I really am an INFJ. When I take those tests I get INFJ or INFP. But I definitely don't think I'm an INFP (reasons below). So here's a bit about me and maybe you can help me figure out what I am? I'm really lost because I'm not even sure if I'm Introverted or Extroverted haha.
I think I'm Introverted, but I'm not sure because I know to some people I would say I'm E though... I will say Hi to people BUT only people I know. And I'm never loud around people I don't know. Ever. But if a stranger sees me being loud, its usually because I'm with my friends and they are seeing me totally without restraints. I do like being by myself and love just sitting in the car, listening to music and thinking about everything (usually what has happened earlier that day, or crazy dreams for the future)
INFP's are generally on a quest for world peace or something, right? Well.... me, not so much. LOL actually when people tell me to recycle I usually tell them "The world will end eventually anyway- my one bottle will not cause the glaciers to melt tomorrow and wipe out the North American continent."
Both INFJ's and INFP's don't like conflict. I think? I'm not really familiar with all the details of the types but that's what I've heard. I don't like LOOK for fights haha but when some drama happens, I think it's rather entertaining.
I'm really strong in my opinion and when something goes against them, man will I get mad. I get irritated and will pull the guilt trigger (I'm also a very good manipulator, by the way) and I almost always win.
I am really, really good at reading people- especially their emotions. I can walk into a room and read the atmosphere and each person's feelings. I can tell if a certain person is tired, or angry or happy without them saying a word to me. I can read their actions and body actions. I've always been good at that- ever since I was little. I'm very sensitive to their emotions and can tailor my actions to fit their emotions for that day.
I can keep to a specific, strict schedule and like to make lists and stuff and like my room to be organized. I'm not OCD about it's cleanliness or anything but it has to be fairly neat. I'm also really forgetful though and am always loosing stuff at different places. However I never forget a commitment I've made to a friend, weather it's bringing them a book or something.
If you have any more questions, just leave them below and I'll get back to you. I'm so confused as to what type I am.