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Hello some of you might remember me from my last post "how do you stop thinking of someone" (if you havent read it go read it before reading this it helps) well as you know i stopped talking to that girl but last friday she came up to me and told me that she missed me and that she loved me and also wanted to be with me. And well i beilieved her we deicided that we would offically be going out on monday. I had no problems with it so i said ok. Well this is were it gets bad 2 days later i find out from her that she met someone on saturday and that they had sex she also told me that she was know going out with that person. When she told me i got so angry that i yelled at her so much i told her that i hated her and that from now on i dont want anything to do with her also that she killed any/all feelings i ever had for her. i told her if she was going to do something like this then why did she make me beilieve that she loved me when she didn't she used me and well i just yelled at her, i made her cry. well now today she was very depressed her friends told me that she didn't even eat anything all day. im starting to feel bad for ever saying those things to her. BUT WHY!!!! is my problem i shouldn't care that she's sad she played me and she hurt me soo much why should i care. this isnt the first time she's done something like this either but this was the most extereme and it felt like the last straw......soo in conclusion am i right should i say im sorry and should i have maybe held off on what i said to her im so confused:crying:
Your reaction to that is understandable. I don't think you're in the wrong at all. If I were you I'd apologize for making her cry and then move on to better things. (That's just me though, I would feel bad for making any friend cry.)
Let me know how things go and good luck man.
 
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i will never do that if i did that then im lowing myself to her standereds and i want to show her that i am better then her and i always have been and always will be:mellow:
Good for you man, cheer up there's so many better people that you'll meet. :proud:
 

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yeah i hope so, i feel scared now i really dont think i can trust someone again or i just dont feel up to getting someone anymore:unsure:
Don't let one bad thing ruin everything.
You don't have to get to know anyone for the time being, take some time to feel better. Go out and do the things that make you happy.
 
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