"Am I the only" ... why does it matter if you are or if you are not? Always ask this question before asking the question.
Anyways, probably are, probably not. But it doesn't matter if you are or if you're not. Probably more important to ask yourself what and why you're looking for whatever answer you're looking for and work on that instead.
Personally, I used to like clubs and I used to like bars. But I did it my own way. I had the experiences, but I didn't need those experiences to be a certain way because I shaped my own experience. I didn't like drinking so I didn't drink. I didn't like being around drunk friends, so my friends knew that I would leave at around the time they lost their minds but that I was fun and had fun before they reached that point.
Same thing with my wife. We do go to clubs and bars sometimes (very rare), but when we do, we do it a certain way that pleases both of us. It's about us. No expectations. No needs.
At the moment, we haven't been to a club in about three years or so, and we've had fun other ways.