Seeing that I tried asking my question on yahoo answers, but haven't really been able to get any responses, I just need some advice. I won't take up too much of your time. Basically I went to visit my brother in Europe, and noticed he had a few kittens. I tried to find them a home, but only kind of cold-sounding people have called. Almost all of them don't ask anything about the cats, just ask when they can pick them up. Now I have two options. I can stay here a bit longer, find a small apartment, and a job, (the salaries are really low here maybe 200 euros a month), and try to give them away again. Or I can take the cats with me to the US, and then give some away and keep some. However in both places I'm surrounded by family members who are anything but INFPs. They're cold, emotionally abusive, and just overall mean. So if I stay here, I'd have to find my own place so I don't live with them, but I'd still have to maybe bum some money off of them, in order to survive, my salary probably wouldn't be enough. If I go back to the US, then I'd have to live with my abusive mom who hates cats. So I'd somehow have to send the cats, but at the same time find a new place away from my mom, and maybe have a kennel pick them up, and I don't know it's so confusing. What should I do? What is better? Sorry that this is long.