An INTP's Crush

Sibams said:

What kind of people are you usually attracted to and how do you deal with it?

Is it the appearance or the personality that does it for an INTP?
Do first impressions count?
Are you the first to make a move or not and how do you act around the particular person? Do you withdraw even more or feel more open with him/her?

Any past events based on the question you would like to share...?

Click to expand...

I really, really find women that have something going for them very attractive, i.e. college grad, a respectable career (teachers) or something they do that they absolutely enjoy (graphic design) or anything interesting and different from the norm. Valley girls or any that you see on reality tv are laughable and annoying...kim kardashian...laughable

although...linda cardellini....adorable:happy:

I typically don't make the first move, simply because I prefer the 'know what she wants' type. However, if I pick up on any verbal/ non verbal queues that are obvious lol (kinda dumb in this department), i'll say something, though somewhat bashfully:blushed:

Appearance/ Personality kind of go hand in hand, because I always observe the entire person, not just the looks...the package has to fit the person. But, thinking back on it now, I've become more attracted to someone with decent looks but a more attractive personality than the reverse more often than not.