What kind of people are you usually attracted to and how do you deal with it?
The girl I've felt most physically attracted to was ESTJ, but I couldn't see any kind of long term relationship with her. She wasn't a stereotypical ESTJ though, being agnostic, among other things. I wondered whether she was an ESTP for a while.
Theoretically speaking, it would be an IN. I seem to connect most easily on a mental level with them. Maybe EN, depending on how extroverted they are.
Is it the appearance or the personality that does it for an INTP?
Do first impressions count?
Both.
Not really. I'm constantly updating and revising my opinion of everyone that I'm in contact with, and try to understand them deeply.
It can take a second or a few months (depending on the circumstances). If I were to learn that my crush now has a significant other all emotions seems to instantly vanish (which is weird because when I imagine hypothetical situations about this happening I think that I'd be very jealous and vengeful). If we are separated by distance and time however it can take me several months for the feelings to cease.
I'm exactly the same way.
