I always end up with IxFx types, easier attraction on both ends probably.What kind of people are you usually attracted to and how do you deal with it?
Is it the appearance or the personality that does it for an INTP?
Do first impressions count?
Are you the first to make a move or not and how do you act around the particular person? Do you withdraw even more or feel more open with him/her?
Any past events based on the question you would like to share...?
Appearance catches attention first, but then their personality also has to be more than acceptable.
First impressions count... for my presentation. I'm 99% of the time going to be less judgmental about first impression than she is.
Ideally her appearance of being pretty and interest-provoking would excite me enough to approach, but my 5/Ti always kicks in and goes "OKAY HOW TO DO THIS" and feels a need to have an effective opening line. I need to get better at just saying hi, and then rolling with the environment and conversation in real time, if I don't have one for the situation. (The best one I ever did included both good opener and good conversation flow, and led to a relationship, so it's worth something.)