I am an ISTJ male, aged 41, and I've started dating an ISFJ (as far as I can tell) female, age 33. She told me she is very shy and sort of a homebody, so she doesn't like to go out very much. I am shy and introverted myself, but I'm not sure what she would like to do on a date. It's difficult getting this info out of her, but I have struck gold with her a couple times, to her surprised delight. It's like she wants me to figure out what makes her tick, a challenge I am up for. Any advice for me?
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Take the gold you dug up, and find something that she might like. Or talk to her more so she spills something she enjoys that you can do for a date. :wink:
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